I,m 20 and i,m trying not to find a gf or if i found one i marry her
its very hard to control myself.
Any one can help me?
2006-07-26 22:21:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mess man Returns!haha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay indoors
2006-07-26 22:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds to me that you need to have your mother and father tell you about how these things work, you would have to be very sure about marrying the right person and not just doing it because of sexual impulses, as you would ruin this person's life and yours, marriage takes a lot, commitment and hard work. You need to learn and have skills in life for a lot of different things in order to take such a big step, if you married just anyone, you'd be very unhappy sooner than later, there are so many people that refrain from doing it, because they can't find the right one and they are old, so think about this before making a big mistake, and do something else better in your life, go to church, or go to school, get some wisdom and knowledge, find out the facts, the truth shall set you free.
2006-07-27 05:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounds to me like you have some issues with either screwing anything that moves OR issues with masturbation. so, if it's issues with the first one then you need to start behaving like a real man not just a boy and get control of yourself and CHOOSE more wisely. One night stands are like big macs... they only satisfy for the moment! (Quote by Madonna) so, one nighters are just pointless in the long run! If it's the second issue then you really have to "learn" and teach yourself how to physically love your own body and that "auto-love" is really okay, it's natural, it's what you should be doing in order to avoid other more tempting situations and what you should be doing JUST because it feels good. unfortunately, too many people have MAJOR hang-ups when it comes to pleasing themselves - whether it's based in religion or learned from their family. i'd get online and read everything you can. Good luck!
2006-07-27 05:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Not Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to find a girl and marry her if need be (I guess you are firm on this, so I wouldn't comment), rather than stay single. Lack of proper sex and a healthy relationship at your age, since you are now maturing, can lead to a lot of problems of physiological and psychological nature in years to come. Pick a lovely woman and go ahead!
2006-07-27 05:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by angellore81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remove yourself from social situations.
Some times being alone is the right step.
2006-07-27 05:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jon H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get life.. party.. enjoy booz.. and respect girls..
you will get one like i got 2 points.. BOO YA..!
2006-07-27 05:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by mk_single 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try working on your communication skills.
2006-07-27 05:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then stay without asking them out
(i don't really get your question)
2006-07-27 05:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by Prisca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not - you sound beyond help.
2006-07-27 05:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by ElderStud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ru gay????????????get a life
2006-07-27 05:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋