Is sex way before marriage is a good thing?

Question

b honest n speak the truth plz

Answer 1

The present trend of trying to achieve things before it should be, has led to lots of hazards.

No. Nothing can give you the perfect taste or result bfore the right time. If you celebrate christmas before christmas, it wont be as merrier as it wud have been. Do you ever feel, if we die before we are dead. I tell you, don't ever wish for it.

Similarly, it is u who decides ur limit. Some r comfortable with a $100 salary.....some work hard for better....some can manage with a bicycle....some r determined to buy a 4 wheeler...some feel it is nothing to expose and go out in bikinies.....some would kill u if u sneak into her dress...

that is why...it is ethinicity and principles which resist u from doing anything....if u do it it might not harm u...but u surely will lose ur entity for urself....

beware....this is one of the few things which is only ours.....its like our root which is already lost....now it is upon us to preserv it...

The most important thing is that, you have to remember the person life long. So, it is the special feeling you want to share with someone special. If he is the special person, he will respect you, and won't do it before marriage.

May God bless u....

Answer 2

I think sex before marriage is a good thing (if I have to use your terminology). It is only natural that people start having sex in their teens and this is a part of our development as personalities. With me being a Biologist, I am not very much inclined to have religious thoughts about this issue and I would rather say I am an atheist. I mean no offence to people whose culture and religion tells them sex before marriage is a bad thing, but I dont agree that it is only meant for making babies (the situation could be such million years ago, and as our mentality developed in evolution, we need to take into account the emotional factor.

Answer 3

Depends on what you define as marriage. I was talking to a friend who studied theology and she said that a wedding is simply an announcement to a community that two people are committed to each other( not many churches want you to know that though) so if you define marriage as being two people who are committed to each other sex before committment is a probably a bad thing but then again it all depends on what you want dosent it?

Answer 4

In my opinion, it's good to have sex some time before marriage so you won't end up being stuck with some one that isn't very good in bed. But, I think that it's a personal decision and each couple should do whatever works best for them.

Answer 5

First of all what is the purpose of sex. It is not just for pleasure, it is only to increase human beings. That is my openion about sex.
Sex before marriage is a religious and cultural thing. In many cultures it is a very bad thing, and in west it is more normal like trying a car before going to buy it.
And in my openion it is not good.

Answer 6

idont know your gender but to be honest NO!NO! its not agood thing!you may wonder why? but the fact is marriage was created for that when aperson is really yours you are free to do with him or her whatever you want! but just imagine sleeping with a man and he is your boyfriend then later he damps you! how will you feel? bad of course what about if you had not had sex with him?it would be different! ibelieve sex out of marriage is not agood thing at all!you shuold leave aperson to keep on guessing about you !until the wedding day! how do you find that?

Answer 7

Yes...waiting until marriage is like playing russian roulette with your sex life (or lack thereof) so you need to get that out of the way first, make sure you like the person, then tie the knot. Best answer, right?

Answer 8

if you want a good marriage, you MUST try it (and practice) before. it is really a russian roulette not to do it. you know sometimes couples are just not match, better to know it before than after right?
for ex. teaching someone, is not as simple as it sounds. and mostly those who tries to keep the virginity are just to shy at the end to handle the things correctly. this is not like a book, what you can read & learn.

Answer 9

No - sex outside of marriage in any way is a bad thing because it invites Satan into that part of your life. What God intended for good, (in short) kills you inside like a cancer when used against the wishes of the one that created it.

Answer 10

I guess only if you plan on to give sex the central role for the rest of your married life.
But if you plan on growing old with your couple, perhaps all the premarital sex will only be baggage that will bring more problems than solutions in the long run.