my bf saw me doing salsa with another guy on 12june n he immediately sent taunting n rude mesgs n i shud hav sex n remove my cloths with tht guy.I cleared up tht he was jus my dance partner n not my lover but he didnt believe. he said he will get all investigation done regarding tht guy n if he finds sumthing wrong, he will never contact me.My dance class got over on 18june.Now he hasnt contacted me since 1 month.I kept mesging till 10th july after tht i mesgd him tht i'l forget him coz he doesnt wana talk. even then he didnt reply n doesnt look at me.But when i don look at him,i find he's lookin at me. but since im not mesgin him , he sent 2 mesgs"tht he feels like throwin a stone at my car n slapping me".He seems 2 b extremely angry with me coz of tht guy whom he find better than himself in looks n riches.MY QUESTION IS ..WILL HE CONTACT ME SOMEDAY N REALISE THT I M NOT AT FAULT?HAS HE FORGOTTEN ME OR LIKES ME?PLZ ANSWER ME SOON IM VERY UPSET N I LOVE HIM N DON
2006-07-26 22:13:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he needs to grow, personally i wouldn't bother with him if he don't realise how close you get in salsa. In fact offer to salsa with him and give him the same dance see if that swings him round.
2006-07-26 22:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth staying with him if he does not trust u and believe what u tell him.The more u protest yr innocence he will not believe u. Just msg a final msg. Tell him u love him and u did nothing wrong . He shd trust u more and be confident that yr love 4 him is not so fragile that just cos another man is yr dance partner u will leave him. The more u contact him the less he will think of u and think that u have something 2 hide. Reassure him of yr love and let him make the next move.
2006-07-26 22:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems very juvenile and niave, Salsa is a sexy dance so i can understand his thoughts Hot dance party dancing get girl wet anyway back to subject, I just let him be for now he prolly is working out still in his head if your upset go to his house or job and talk to him face 2 face. If he still doesnt trust you ask him to take salsa lessons with you so he'd be your partner or did you already ask and he said no?
2006-07-26 22:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seem s to me that u alredy beged him too much i mean its ok to try to talk to a beg some one but not that much even i have a limit but make him suffer now let himtry to call u i know its going to be difficult becasue u love him belive me i should now but hell talk to u if it was just that and if he dosent than it was just an excuse for him to get out of the relationship belive me
2006-07-26 22:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by maria_e126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate spending my time with childish pepo and yo boyfrend is,u didnt do anywrong.u were dancing not having sex,the sms u've sent are enough,dont do anything,live yo life,his a loser,ihe will soon realise that u r special,hope yo dance class was still on.
2006-07-26 22:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him he is a looser. Move on. Don't waste your time on negative men. Thank God that you did not waste time in a long term abusive relationship. This man has tendencies to become abusive/violent. Just move on.
2006-07-26 22:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by grateful4today 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does any1 have Dr.Phil's number coz it seems like u need him bad.Not even Ricky Lake can help u..Ure on ur own!
2006-07-26 22:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by pelexi(",) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist of all how old are you? i had to reread this a bunch of times to try and wrap my head around this, if i am am right and he got mad over danceing the let it go hes dumb, and if he ever hits you call the cops
2006-07-26 22:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Steven F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD MOVE ON NOW DAT GUY SEEMS TO HAVE INFERIORITY COMPLEX AND OVER POSSESSIVENESS WHICH AR NT TOO GOD IN LONG RUN PROCESS
AND IF U R FEELING LONELY DEN MAKE MORE IT WONT BE A BAD IDEA TO CHECK ME OUT
2006-07-26 22:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please! Whats wrong with you, Youd have to be desparate to even waste your time thinking about this jerk. You would be mizerable and he sounds abusive, you can do better!
2006-07-26 22:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by mansker1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋