I am 33 years, single male & never had any affair. Any advice.?

Question

I am average looking, shy and introvert person. Don't know how to start a conversation with a lady.

Answer 1

You can think of some topics by looking at her. Look at the way she dresses, her friends, the activity she's doing, the music she seems to like (if you're at a club or something) and stuff like that and work a conversation with it. You can learn the type of woman she is just by looking carefully (just don't be too obvious or you'll look like a stalker).

Just break the ice. For example, if you're at the park, and you see a woman reading, you could reach her and say something like "Hey, what book is that? Have you read "x"? I read it a few months back and I found it was good, you should read it if you find the chance, blah blah blah" or if she's running, you could start running too and reach her to start a conversation about it, like asking how often does she do it, if she usually runs at that park, and stuff like that. Just be creative and act nice. Don't look too much into it or she'll be afraid and think something like "where did this loser come from?". You want to look nice and friendly.

If you're extremely shy, just start walking towards the woman and don't think about it, eventually you'll be close enough to look dumb if you move away, so you'll be forced to start a conversation. Just prepare something good though, you don't want to look like an idiot, and don't look too desperate.

Just think about this: it's someone you don't know, you'll probably never see her again, so what is there to lose? Just keep thinking "what's the worst that could happen?", in the worst case scenario she'll just say she's not interested and you walk away, no big deal.

Hope this helps. Good luck!

Answer 2

well , the problem is you cant be single and have an affair. unless the person your with is married.. but that wouldn't be fare Hum-mm that would explain why me and you are not married yet.. To get you out of the shyness what you need to do when talking to whoever your talking look them in the eyes and in your head think this Brod is no better than I am...because I guarantee you, shes thinking the same thing.{ that'll be $250 dollars.}

Answer 3

Meet her doing stuff that you like to do. Clubs, organizations, groups, etc. Eventually you'll have to talk about something (where to put the tablecloths, when the next meeting is, "hey I left my bag somewhere, can you help me find it?" etc.). If you're in a group where people are talking to each other, it makes it easier to talk to ladies. Eventually, you will know a lot about that person, because you've already talked so much; and then you can invite them to parties, baseball games, dinner, and then on dates, you see? It works if you go in steps.
Plus, it gets you the chance to meet the person before you're actually dating them!

Answer 4

I wish I had more time to ans u this morning, running late 4 work, e-mail me or just go to that site my space.com and look 4 Day Dreamer lv me a mess and I will get back with u today. I am the Day Dreamer that is from Charlotte NC

Answer 5

Women love bad boys. Get a tatoo, go to jail several
times, treat them mean and they will swarm after you.
TED BUNDY was getting 200 letters per week from women
before he was executed. Richard Rameriz (the night stalker)
had so many women coming to prison fighting over him
he has to be sent to another. A lady told me that she always
thought I was a good man. I reminded her that she didn't choose me, but three other men who are now in jail to father her three kids.

Answer 6

Get 2 know the girl 1st . Dont eye every girl u meet with the intention of bedding them. U r special any girl with a bit of commonsense will grab u and never let go.

Answer 7

so you are a 33 year old virgin? well if you can't find a way to let a lady know that you are interrested then you need to let a woman take charge. you need to open up and don't be afraid of rejection it is bound to happen...especially if you spend your time infront of a computer

Answer 8

Can you join any classes or Clubs, such as learning a language or joining a tennis or rowing club, This would allow you to interact with others and to create new circles of friends.

Answer 9

Just hang out and be yourself. Someone will talk to you maybe.

Bookstore? Join a group. Volunteer work. Just meet people in other settings and something will just happen. Just get out there. You are the world!

Answer 10

Common, be a man and make a move whenever you want but choose a right person that will understand you all the way.