He apologized and begged me not to.
2006-07-26 22:03:26 · 29 answers · asked by marissababy00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt kiss back
2006-07-26 22:08:13 · update #1
and it was a boob grabbing kiss
2006-07-26 22:08:42 · update #2
it was a guy
2006-07-26 22:13:08 · update #3
why didnt u resist then ? if u did & still got kissed then inform ur bf.
2006-07-26 22:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Razor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! This is a very complicated issue that I know happens pretty often. I would definitely tell your boyfriend. I don't have any actual numbers to throw out here, but I would guess that 8 times out of 10, the best friend will tell the "boyfriend" and it will come back to you and it could hinder the relationship. Honesty being the best policy is an overused phrase that is actually applicable here. If you are up front about it and actually pass it off as nothing, then it will be indicative that it meant nothing to you and your relationship with your boyfriend is strong. If it was the best friend who initiated the kiss, then it will and should fall on him. He was the one who crossed the line and you should not be the one to pay for it. It is definitely not easy, but don't do the best friend any favors. You don't owe anything to him. Take it from another guy and do the right thing. Good luck!
2006-07-26 22:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by bhuft76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't believe me he will end up telling him. If he is a true best friend it will eat at him day and night, and he will act diffrent when u 3 are around each other and yr bf will pick up on it. If u don't say anything and later it does come out, yr bf will wonder what else went on that he didn't know. U didn't do wrong, the friend did.Now on the flip side of things, If u kissed him back and it felt right then maybe it's time u moved on any way. Good Luck
2006-07-26 22:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Day Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should. Be honest to your boyfriend. He may not trust you again and he's gonna think you were part of the whole accident. I suggest to tell him before he finds out from someone else. After all, his best friend kissed you. You didn't kiss him in the first place. Good Luck!
2006-07-26 22:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, He probably really likes you (the best friend) and now he realises that his feelings are not recipricated, he is probably very down about it.
Tell him that, on this occasion you will not tell your boyfriend but if he ever does it again, you will!!
It would be a shame to split up friends, (he is obviously not a very good friend to do that to your boyfriend) But he probbably felt so strongly about you that he thought it was worth it!!
Try and be a friend to him, he probably needs it!
2006-07-26 22:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by dizzybint78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's quite a delicate issue. But I think that it depends on the kind of relationship you and your boyfriend have, and also on his personality. If you really care about your boyfriend and you think that he won't make a big deal out of it, tell him. But, if you think that it will make problems, don't tell him. It's not worth ruining your relationship because of some unimportant thing. OMG, I know that my answer is confusing, but it's very difficult to tell. It all depends...
2006-07-26 22:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by cityexplorer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u need 2 tell him other wise its gone lead ya further into more drama then u gone loose yur man 4 the looser whose setting both of u up 2 split u better wake up and reckognize what u really doing can come back 2 hurt u . unless u want his bestfriend and not him who ur with. u have to dicide
2006-07-26 22:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by VooDooQueenWitch Docter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was boob toughing and you kissed back then you should tell him because obviously you liked it....and don't be surprised if he wants to break up with you
2006-07-26 22:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by Fat Kids Are Hard To Kidnap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES! The guilt will drive you nuts. And even if you didn't want it, you should tell your boyfriend! Tell him you didn't want it either. His best friend betrayed him thats awful.
Think of it from his position. What if YOUR best friend kissed your boyfriend and your boyfreind didn't tell you.
WHat if it leaked out? And you eventually found out.
Ouch.
2006-07-26 22:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Fanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a kiss between friends? Do not make a mountain out of a mole hill
2006-07-26 22:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love him and care about him yes you should.. he deserves to know and what if the friend slips up or tells someone else and it gets back to your boyfriend.. then you would have a lot of explaining to do. So be premptive and tell him first.
2006-07-26 22:06:40 · answer #11 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋