so there's this girl i've liked for a long time and we're great frienjds but now i've told her that i love her...eventhough it won'[t work out cause she wants to get settled in a couple of years and i can't give her that...and now i feel like i've messed up the whole friendship we had..am i wrong? can we still be the way we were?
2006-07-26 21:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by anantseam85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
may be..... when u told her that you loved her have you mixed up your own feelings? Prob. the love that you had was a brother-sister kind of love? Good luck!
2006-07-26 21:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by denizen251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not! There is nothing wrong with telling a person that you love them, doesn't always have to lead to marriage. Your circumstances or the way she feels may change within the two years and you may have a second chance.Unless of course you are a physic and can already see the future. So unless she finds it difficult to spend time with you any more as friends II cant see a problem. Everybody needs to have friends.
2006-07-26 22:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be all nice about this and say that it just depends on how close the two of you were, or I could be blunt and just say that no, it's most likely not going work like that. I seriously doubt she will take the news well, so just be prepared for any anger. You lied to her man, she will be upset, count on it.
This isn't something I'd advise that you hold off on either. You're better off busting her bubble now while the repercussions for your actions will be minimal. Just remember that the longer you wait to tell someone something like this, the more painful for them (and you probably) it will be when you finally come out and say it.
2006-07-26 21:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.. it depends if you both work on it if you guys can talk w/o it being uncomfortable for either person yes. My x she and her now fiance had been together for 3 years we dated while they dated she loved me but we were to different she was gothic i was punk didnt work anyway was good in beginning over a year we stopped talking just to hard.
2006-07-26 21:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by sugrdady03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be cool. Love is love. You should love your friends!
There are people I love, but we could never settle down together.
Can't change who you love. Even if you can't tolerate eachother in a living situation - you can still feel love for them.
2006-07-26 21:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by ruletheworld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If like+++++
2006-07-26 21:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by oyetimtop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can still be friends.
but you gotta control yourself..kay
2006-07-26 21:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by madpianist_hahaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just have to find out, won't you!!!
2006-07-26 21:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by brian_with_an_i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're SCREWD
2006-07-26 21:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ikkin X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! very different
2006-07-26 21:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋