i always want to wait for atleast a few dates, out of respect and morals... but most older women want it now, i've had good long lasting relationships in the past with women i've had sex with on the first date...and i've been just plain all out seduced... i feel if we both consent to it what's the harm? what should i do?
2006-07-26 21:30:08 · 17 answers · asked by Tank Stillton 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what you want, if you both feel like it then you should do it.
2006-07-26 21:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is completely all correct for persons of any age to pass out at the same time, in the experience that they do it as friends. besides the undeniable fact that, if the article of the courting is Romance or Sexual, then the perception may no longer be a good one. human beings of 15 could have plenty in hardship-free with someone of 40, yet they're truly no longer grown up yet. If those 2 truly imagine that they love one yet another, they prefer to attend many years. Then they could make certain their destiny from the standpoint of two Adults........
2016-10-15 06:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh - I had sex on the first date with some ladies on the first date before I turned 40 - however - if you want a relationship that is more than just sex dude - you know as well as me that on the first date is not usually going to work - but sometimes its all just about sex anyway - right????
2006-07-26 23:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm at all but I'd wait for her to seduce you if it's the first date. Let's face it, if she wants it she will let you know & why wait til the next one (unless she's a psycho & there won't be a second) Otherwise wait til a few more before you put it on her. You don't want to be one of those 'they're all the same, he expected me to shag him just coz he bought me dinner' guys, even if you are.
2006-07-27 01:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is usually better to get to know someone first. You don't want to end up with someone crazy like in "Fatal Attraction" or something! Take it slow.
We're not kids anymore, that is for sure. And that is why I would think you would have learned lessons from your past. If you are looking for true love -- it will be worth waiting for.
2006-07-26 21:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ifeelyourpain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older women have usually heard all the lines and bs before. If they like you they want you. Do what feels right to you. You are old enough to know if it's going to last or not. Go with your gut feeling.
2006-07-26 21:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by ltexasfootballer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I at least waited until the second date. I say I will wait, but life is too short to stifle your desires. Now if you find a woman who does want to wait, that would be kind of cool. It is fun to try!
2006-07-26 21:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by ruletheworld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the harm is that there is aids out there. you want to know all about the person before you put your life on the line. if the older women you go out with now want it now, they probably have wanted it now from other guys. you sleep with them, you sleep with their other sexual partners. do yourself a favor dude...do without, and have nocturnal emmissions. that's safe sex.
2006-07-26 21:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by Debi K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if it has anything to do with age....in a traditional sense you get to know ppl first before sex, regardless of age. with that said, when you feel the attraction, it's healthy. and the best situation is when ppl do it with a sense that there is more than just receiving the physical. for you, it seemed this way, no? and you justify yourself.....that's funny.
2006-07-26 21:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone to their own I suppose, I would probably not want to wait but I would as wouldn't want a man to think I was easy. But that's personal choice and you are a grown man so you can do what you want.
2006-07-26 22:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmnn...c'mon seduced? Anway, you are both in the right age to judge about it. So it's all up to you....I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Enjoy the date!
2006-07-26 21:34:04 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋