My ex was 31, l'm 19, we went out for nearly a year and other then the night we met, which was in a night club, he never asked me to go clubbing with him as he said he can't let me come out on a boys night, not that l really wanted to go, just would have been nice to be asked.
He said l also couldn't go cos l couldn't ever stay the night with him, and he would really want me at the end of the night that's why he never asked me to go.
l used to think it would be nice for my mates to meet his, like what alot of my mates do when they have fellas, but he just didn't want to know.
Why is this?
l'm from uk, clubbing and drinking age is 18.
2006-07-26 21:25:35 · 18 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ln response to if l ruled..
lt's not that l wanted to go on his boys nights, l just thought it was wierd that after a year of seeing him, l never once got asked to go with him.
2006-07-26 21:35:53 · update #1
my bro in law is 40 and still does clubbing whats worse is he trails around with 16 year olds to go there... i think its well weird
2006-07-26 21:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well its obvious from the fact that a 31 year is interested in a 19 year old that he's immature. A 'grown up' 31 year old would see a 19 yr old as a child and not a love interest. So clubbing all the time is just another sign of what was already obvious. He didn't want you to go because he doesn't want to get harrassed about dating children and he wants to pick up other girls if it comes up.
2006-07-27 04:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all allowed to have fun. Yes. Even at 31. Now, if he's going to the club just to hit on super young women, then there might be a problem.
2006-07-27 04:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's most likely got a girlfriend. And if it is a boys night out - why do you want to be there???
Get A Life
2006-07-27 04:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you are only 19, still young enough to enjoy yourself... while your 31 year old ex is looking like a saddo trawling clubs...
2006-07-27 04:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by Saccharin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! I am a man who loves to go clubbing with my lady all the time. We have fun together alone or with my mates. He is hiding something or meeting women.
2006-07-27 04:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by ltexasfootballer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hooking up with other girls.
What do you care? He's a jerk. He is your EX.
Move on sister, get a life and stop creeping around looking in his windows and trying to go thru his trash and stealing his mail.
2006-07-27 04:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Parvo E Bola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend at work who is 48 and she goes clubbing every weekend mind she does'nt look her age and she also comes across as being a lot younger
2006-07-27 05:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by harknessalan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got played sister. I can imagine him saying these things to his friends at the disco.
" so 'Ralph' hows things going with the 'young one'?" "Man I got that girl so whipped on me its ridicious, I got this other broad thats 22 on my jock too!"
"Damn! straight up pimp!"
thats how guys are, i am one.
Although im amerian so maybe what they would actually asay is a bit different because their brits......dunno, dont know any.
2006-07-27 06:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by redirus92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u stressing about he is ur ex so move on i feel u cant let go of him 4 this so next time u see him ask him
2006-07-27 05:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by deborahlouiseclarke20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋