Am lookin for a womans opinion, the thing is I have a bf and he is much more experienced than me. Even though the girls he has been with were in the past, i still cant get over thinking about things he has done with them which is alot more than what me and him have done together. I always think that i wont be as good for him as they were in that department since I am not experienced. I guess I am just saying i dont know why i am jealous of his past relationships when i am the one with him now? anyone feel me on this?
2006-07-26 21:25:10 · 7 answers · asked by cutiepatootie179 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i get what you are tryign to say. i feel the same too. I get so jealous and i hope my bf did not have an ex at all. the urge gets so intense when I have to accept the fact there was some other girl in his life. sometimes i think on the times "they" had spent together and i used to feel that he might feel "im no good" for him and he might go back. when the truth is,i know that he loves me and me only. the last relationship he had is now out of the box and i should not worry about it. we girls are very emotional and we cant fight the jealousy we have. but you have to know that its normal what you are having untill you tell yourself that he is yours now and he is happy with you. there's also a good communication with him and when he is honest with you about his last relationship, why must you be feeling insecure? today, i saw my bf's ex and i was so pist. then, i consoled myself saying that, its now over and im with him now. all in all, don't let this feelings to ruin your relationship with him. be cool about it as long as he is not cheating on you. its perfectly normal as you just love him too much and you don't dare to share him with anyone and yuo wish no one else had ever had his love before as you want him to have your love only...
2006-07-26 21:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look this is a normal feeling. but u should be more clever to control ur thoughts. don't keep on thinking about things that happened, think what can u do to be the best for him.
if u can fill up his life and needs then he himself will forget about his past. but if u couldn't maybe he will miss his past and try to get back to it.
take it easy and let him know that talking about his past bothers u.
2006-07-26 21:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am feeling you. I am proud you are feeling this way coz it means that you are willing to learn. I believe you should take the compliment that he has being there and done that and he will do it to you. Ask him to teach you what he likes. I am sure you will have a great experience learning together.
2006-07-26 21:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his past relationships were all that they would not be past relationships girlfriend. Sex is not the beginning or the end of anything most men want their egos stroked more than anything else!!!!. If you continue to dwell in the past (or in his past) not only are you going to drive yourself crazy, your going to drive your man away!!!!!! Ask him what he WANTS and ask him what he LIKES then do it. Good Luck.
2006-07-26 21:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experienced in what? sleeping around? unfortunately even if you are more experienced on this than him and you have more variety you have to pretend only. So why worry lead him in to being free so you can add a few tricks up your stock
2006-07-26 21:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by kimchi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur just feeling insecure.. obviously they werent doin something right if u have him now, huh.. Just be the nice girl hes in love with it will make ur relationship strong.. theyre will be plenty of time for u and him to experience ur own sensual moment. it will be fine..
2006-07-26 21:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by igotbuuurnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget about him
2006-07-26 21:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋