help please! i constantly get angry with my girl friend and i curse a lot when i am angry,does it happen 2 u?

Answer 1

One thing that may help is for you to listen to other people when they use a lot of swear words or deragatory language when they talk, or how they talk when they are angry. I think you will tend to find that you stop listening to what they are saying between the swear words very quickly, because it just detracts from what they are trying to say. Do you swear in front of your parents, your boss, at church? If you act like you are always talking to your parents, you can control your language very easily. As far as constantly getting angry with your gf, you could have some anger or control issues that you need to address, or you will never be able to have a happy, loving relationship with any woman. No one can make you get angry, YOU are the only one who can allow yourself to become angry. I'm sure there is anger management info. or counseling available to you if it is a real problem in your life. When you are angry or swearing at your gf, she will shut you out to defend her feelings from being hurt. I have to give you a LOT of credit for admitting that this is a problem for you. Most men refuse to admit that acting out their anger and hurting another person is anything other than normal. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

yes it happens in the normal course of relationship