Would you be with someone you truly loved and adored, but he clear didn't have the same feelings.
OR
would you be with someone who cherished you, and would do anything for you,but you clearly didnt feel the same way.
2006-07-26 20:27:41 · 12 answers · asked by *Shy Girl* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If those were the only guys in the world.......The first wouldn't work because if he no care about you why he wanna be with you.(so he probably gonna find somebody he adores) And the second well as I'm older and wiser I'd go for the guy who thinks I'm great because he's not going to let me go use me leave me or cheat on me although that might b harder for me to hang in there if I just plain don't like him.
2006-07-26 20:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
For any sane person, the second option is the only one possible. If you choose the first option, you would be feel pretty miserable, you would be never happy because your feelings and love would never be matched nor properly returned, from there to being jealous, paranoid, insecure, low self-esteem, etc. there is a tiny step. But the truth is that none of your options is valid for me, I want to love and be loved, to have a companion.
2006-07-27 03:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1. Definitely.
2006-07-27 03:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id rather go for the one that cherish and would do anything for me.coz theres no use fighting for the love if u were rejected esp im a girl.i just cant fight for my feelings and pursue the guy i love.i think that love can be developed beautifully,u just have to nurture it.
2006-07-27 03:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by summer79 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no clear answer here. I would not do either as you are not serving his needs nor yours. Both relationships are destined to be doomed.
2006-07-27 03:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i could be with the guy who loves me but i prefere the guy who i love its never about the person who likes me but me liking the person
i m human.i know its stupid its always about being loved rather than to love
2006-07-27 03:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by princess.of.spice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theirs a song about this and i have had personal experience and if i had to do it again, i would have stayed with the one who loved me, because the one i loved fell for someone else. Duh
2006-07-27 03:32:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... That's a hard one..
Hmm... the second one cuz who knows... maybe im time i'll like him someday?
2006-07-27 03:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lexy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd rather have it the first way.
2006-07-27 03:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM that is a hard one to answer
2006-07-27 03:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋