what can i do can i tell to my father that i see mom with having
sex with my uncle
2006-07-26 20:22:52 · 30 answers · asked by asds w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think you should say anything. You should talk to your mom about it.
2006-07-26 20:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very complex. I would talk to your counselor first.
Ask yourself if you like living with your mom and dad, and then ask yourself if you like your uncle.
If you tell your dad then one of several things can happen if not more.
1. It can cause a divorce.
2. It can cause extream anger and someone could get hurt.
3. Your dad may not believe you and then you'll feel inadiquate.
4. You mom could resent you and not trust you.
5. It can cause your dad to go thru all the stages of rejection. Possibly resulting in a long term case of depression.
Talk to someone real about it. There are consequenses to everything, and you should weigh them out.
It might be possible to arrange a way that he will catch her on his own, but the same things can happen.
THERE MAY BE A CHANCE OF BRIBERY HERE
2006-07-26 20:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be careful with your decision. You probably would really feel good to tell your dad. Since you do not know how he will react, things could blow up and get nasty.
But why not talk to your mom and your uncle? Even better, talk to them together. You might suggest that they cool it, or tell your dad, OR you will tell your dad. Put the ball in their court. And seeing a guidance counselor would be an excellent idea for you. Keep reaching out for help for yourself!
2006-07-26 21:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends whether the father is the head of the house or your mom????A subdued father will only get depressed!! Best is to talk (no threats)to your uncle and sort it out, if possible!!!
2006-07-26 20:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is very serious
I think you should try to talk to ur mom, tell her what u saw and what u think about it... Also, tell her that you think that she should tell dad because if she doesn't, you will... Explain to her that he deserves to know it so he can also move on
This situation will soon be discovered whether u tell ur father ot not
The bad news are that what u saw means that ur mother doesn't love ur father anymore and this probablt will lead to divorce, so prepare urself mentally and try not to judge anybody, listen to them first
It is better for them to separete, so they can be happier and start over with their love lives
Just remember that they love you and like any other human being they make mistakes
Hope this helps!
2006-07-26 20:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by sweet-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your dad dont you? Well, I believe that he would prefer that he learned from you that from anybody else. Your mother and uncle clearly had no regard nor respect whatsoever for your dad and especially for you, allowing you to witness their escapades... tell your dad. You could write him a letter, that is one of the most personal way a person can express himself without having to face another person. Be honest, your dad deserves that.
As for your mom and uncle, there's always bad karma.
2006-07-26 20:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, before she finds out that you know about it....or tell her first that you know about it and you want her to stop. You know your Mom best...and you know your Dad better than any of us here. Is your Mom a decent woman apart from being lust crazed right now? ...or is she the kind of woman who has a sick mind...and would actually blackmail you if she finds out that you know about her adulterous behavior? It should be you blackmailing her for what she is doing...but don't do that...either way it can backfire on you. If one of my kids ever come to me and tell me straight up what they have witnessed, I would believe without any doubt....most of all if they can somehow prove it. So, hey...this is your call....your parents- your future...weigh up all pros and cons...and maybe find someone...like your Mom's parents- your grandparents....they should be able to talk some sense into her.
2006-07-26 20:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell ur father and do as the uncle did that ur father should sex with her aunty (uncle wife)
2006-07-26 20:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Rahul J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get involed because it's like choosing between your parents. Talk to your mom and uncle about it first. If it continues drop hints to your dad. Get proof though cause he could get mad at you and believe them over you.
2006-07-26 20:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by catmoosebear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay out of it because it would cause lots of damage to your family.. maybe he'll find out himself some day cuz if u get involved your parents mite get divorced and it would be hard for you and ur dad. just see what happens and give it time.
but if u truly hate ur mom or something go right ahead and just tell him
2006-07-26 20:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mama mia, I think sometimes old traditions are the best. Since it is impossible to face your dad, how about writing him a mail explaining what you saw and when they do it. Then suggest that he follows them so see it for himself. State the truth and do not exagerrate.
2006-07-26 20:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋