I found out a secret that would make my stepmoms Head blow off if she found out.... My sis has A Boyfriend whohas a scary family... His mom told him to kill himself 3 days ago and his bro is like on drugs according to her. Brandon (her BF) Seems nice but now i have a new perspective when I found out that he had to do sum volunteer work after at skool checking him with drugs for his friends.... He claims to not take drugs but u never kno. I really should tell my stepmom but there is a 90% chance she will make her breakup with him if she did kno..... Wat should i do?
2006-07-26 20:18:58 · 14 answers · asked by yoanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
mmm bad situation,what to do,say you tell mom,sis gets angry and things get messy,you dont tell mom and sis gets hurt,whether from drugs directly but could be drug related,or do nothing and wait and see if mom finds out herself.
id make sure i have the facts before involving your mom and talk to your sis about it and see if things are ok and that she knows whats drugs are all about,and see if theres nothing to worry about,if there is make sure she knows your telling mom and that your looking out for her,then try to find some way of telling the bf that if he continues down that path he does it without your sister.
hope any of that helps and good luck
2006-07-26 20:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by draggingout9999 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Tough one...but for the sake of safety you need to tell. But stress that she did not find out from you. Sounds like step mom also needs to call the local authorties/protective services too. The guy obvioulsy is not in a stable environment.
Good luck
PS Your step mom should not take it as your sisters fault...that is important
2006-07-27 03:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your place to tell. You need to discuss the situation with your sister and make sure she understands the extent of the situation. Tell her exactly what you typed onto here and tell her that you are concerned. If things continue and you find out that Brandon is doing drugs, I would suggest telling your step-mom.
2006-07-27 03:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Krista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a non-partisan adult that your sister trusts, like a chaplain or school counselor, who can talk to her first. If there is nobody like that, you need to talk to your step-mom in a calm, rational way, not blowing things out of proportion. She only has your sisters best interests at heart, but it sounds like her approach is wrong, you might tell her that so she can deal with it in a sane way.
2006-07-27 03:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. Let your sis date whoever she wants....you wouldn't appreciate it if she was snooping around in your love life. As for your stepmom, what she doesn't know won't hurt her.
2006-07-27 03:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by Babber420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
judging by family it looks like.. tell ur step mom, if you feel the need to get it off ur chest, otherwise let it runs it's course.
lots of things happen that are gonna be beyond your control. sometimes better to stay out of it than to stir it up.
2006-07-27 03:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Emmy aka Marla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u dont want ur sis to be mad at u dont tell ur stepmom just try to get her boyfriends family help
2006-07-27 03:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by track_gurl2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u love ur sister??? do u worry about what she might be getting into?? if so i think the best thing u can do for her is to tell. she might be mad at u for awhile but if she is mature she will soon understand that u was just worried about her. so yes i would tell.
2006-07-27 03:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by kimnnano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, she found herself a real prize.
What should you do? Just leave it alone. The evidence will present itself soon enough.
2006-07-27 03:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your stepmom cus your sister could get into the hole drug thing
2006-07-27 04:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋