my cusin's son is 16 years old child. he is just like my son i am 25 years old he is as my child?
and i treat him like a kid.
yesterday he came to our house and i hold his hand and say how are you my son?
and my that reaction enhance his feelings. i really dont know but then he put his hand on my chest.
this is very surprizing behaviour. then i realize that its not his fault his age is 16 then i saw he becamr very restless.
now i am very sad because he is like my son.
he continously touches my breasts
i decided to stay far with him
2006-07-26 20:02:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
but one thing is very torturing for me that why he gets enhance of his feelig with me.
2006-07-26 22:11:24 · update #1
Sounds like you've got it figured out. Thanks for sharing. What's the question?
2006-07-26 20:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Garth 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was doing it when i was 7.i would do the same if i were him.u should treat him not like your son .like brother.age of 16 your hormones are very crazy .u wanna do everyhole lol
why did u let it happen? u should have responded agrresive way.
did he grow in religious family? next time slap him on his face .i am sure he will stop it.dont just stay away from him if you just ignore him he will think you like it .next time justdo what i told you .it will help. and definitely let his father know about it . It looks like kid needs some sexual behaviour education from an adult .otherwise he will make alot of troubles.
i am sure u are not telling us whole story he wouldnt be able to do that without your will.
2006-07-27 03:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just another Mary Kay Latourneau account... if not, you ought to tell your cousin about what happened. You ought to feel bad because getting groped or grabbed against your will is terrible, especially if someone you value in your life did that to you. He's 16, for crying out loud... he should've known better! As for you, you're old enough to confront him about his behavior... Ugh.. Im feeling sick right now, not to mention the ordeal I had to go through while trying to comprehend your story.
2006-07-27 03:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jinky Winky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let your son and your cousin's son get away with touching your breasts? Wow. The kid is 16, he's old enough to know better.
2006-07-27 03:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that has got to be the worst feeling in the world. I'm so sorry. Have you talked to him, maybe he doesn't realize it......? I'm so sorry, you're probably crushed and all weirded out. Talk to him....talk to your cousin. I really don't know what else to say, smack his hand and say, "back off buddy!" as a joke.....maybe the "joke" will give him the idea. I hope it all works out.
God bless, and good luck.
2006-07-27 03:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Scoot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you made the best decision already. To stay away from him. He may be 16 but I think he's old enough to know what he's doing and it's called sexual abuse.
2006-07-27 03:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really understand your question.
He is under the age of 18, which makes him a minor and you will go to jail if you have sex or sexual contact with a minor.
You need to tell your cousin about it or you could go to jail.
2006-07-27 03:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you treat him like your son, I don't think you should stay far from him, but instead explain to him nicely that that is something you don't want him to do.
I don't think it pays to loose someone like your son if you can straighten it out by talking to him.
2006-07-27 03:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by a b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...he's horney. Stay away, you are good. i would have given him a black eye or a kick in the nuts!!! If you count him as a son, sons don't touch mother's breasts. OK
2006-07-27 03:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by curious? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooh no i found ur situation a very complicated bt its better u ignore that rascal and never again respond to him if at all u r awfully hurt.....anywayz my best wishes r wid u .....do take care and ba byeee...luv'chakolli
2006-07-27 05:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good idea to keep the boy at least one kebob stick's distance between you, know what I mean??
2006-07-27 03:24:40 · answer #11 · answered by metrobluequeen1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋