Last weekend while out with 2 other friends, another group of guys walked by and bumped into my friend, these 3 guys were gay and made a comment towards one of my friends.
Naturally my friend, being the hot-head that he is, decides to attack this group, my other friend joins in.
What did I do next?
A. Join in
B. Called the cops and try to pull my friends away.
C. Nothing, and now I feel, really, really bad with complete and utter guilt that since then have gone to the hospital to visit these 3 guys. Even though I dont agree with their choices, no one should ever get beaten in such a way???
2006-07-26 19:35:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Civic Participation
No, my friends didnt end up in the Hospital, the 3 other guys did, I had seen them around before, but never talked to them.
2006-07-26 19:54:40 · update #1
none include the correct answers. if your so called "Friends" cared about what you think they would have listened if you had told them you were opposed to this before anything happened
2006-07-26 19:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by some guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C. And you feel helpless. You wish you could have done something but you didn't. You feel helpless that good people can be misunderstood and victimized and mistreated without fault.
But before you feel completely victimized you said your friend was naturally a "hot-head", as if it were reasonable for everyone around him to expect him to be hot tempered. And then you say your friend didn't desearve the treatment he got. Did you expect the other guys to act like Mother Teresa, while your friends acted like Homer Simpson? Is that a realistic expectation? Is it wise to believe you can walk around through the world, interact in such a way that antogonizes others and escape with only the consequences you anticipated or were willing to take?
You feel responsible for what happened but you don't know what you could do different. But if you are wise you will persist to find a truthful answer to what bothers you.
2006-07-26 19:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Join in.
If they are really your friends you will get their back and besides you'll heal up if you get pummeled. If they were gay they were sissy-slapping anyways and kicking while laying on their backs.
Fight 'em but try to peel the people off of eachother and then get a couple of cheap shots as your two groups part.
2006-07-26 19:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were an accomplice/participant to an assault,you should be in jail not on the computer. I wonder how proud you would have been had you lost the fight and been the one in the hospital. No matter who started it,you were wrong .Men think it proves their manhood to fight but it only proves to me that you didn't have the brains to just keep walking.You didn't feel bad enough to try to stop the assault did you ?
2006-08-01 14:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This post can be used as evidence against you in a court of law. I don't know which one you did, but this question puts you with your friends during the beating of some other guys, who know who you are.
2006-07-26 21:04:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real act of a man will come if you have to testify against your so called friends.
It is easier to do the right thing after the fact...
but i cant judge as we have all made mistakes in our lives.
the right thing was to prevent it.....
I am not gonna preach. but
Christ forgives all.
2006-07-26 19:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by nefariousx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. "join in" , I would join in cuz i always got my friends backs no matter what but thats just me, just like the way they got my back..
2006-07-26 19:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by ferris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C.
find a better class of friends
And try not to beat yourself up over it (sorry! lol). WE've all stood by and let something happen and regretted it
2006-07-26 19:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh!
I know this!
Choose B!
Do I get a 100?
2006-07-26 19:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by KylieElenstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you got caught up in something you knew was wrong, but failed to do the right thing,, but you are doing the right thing now,,, forgive yourself,, I'm sure they have,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-07-26 19:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋