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Tips and tricks? Ask a girl out, man. Jeez. It's not that hard. If she says No, ask another one. After 100 "No"s, it'll be easy for you to ask, and eventually, someone will say "Yes."

2006-07-26 19:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 3 0

Selfish behavior, as unhealthy as this might
sound, often makes women feel attracted to you.

Sarcasm, ball busting, playing hard to get and
all kinds of other "illogical" things really do
work when it comes to attracting women.
WHY DO WOMEN BECOME ATTRACTED TO JERKS?

The short answer is that they don't CHOOSE it,
it's something that just HAPPENS.

ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

It's an emotional response to certain things.

Women don't CHOOSE to feel the emotion called
ATTRACTION for jerks any more than YOU choose to
feel the emotion called ATTRACTION for young,
beautiful, hard bodied women.

Nature has preprogrammed MEN with a mechanism
that works like this:

SEE HOT WOMEN ---> FEEL ATTRACTION

Well, women have a similar mechanism. But I
think that the female version is MORE COMPLEX.

Yes, women do feel attraction for extremely
handsome men... but they feel a MUCH STRONGER
ATTRACTION for certain PERSONALITY TRAITS and
BEHAVIORS than they do for physical looks alone.

So, again the short answer is that it's just
something that "happens" inside of a women. She
doesn't "choose" it.

So, what is it about the "jerk" that creates
this powerful, uncontrollable ATTRACTION inside of
women?

Let me answer first by telling you what IT'S
NOT:

It's NOT the abuse (not usually anyway). I
don't believe that women are attracted to that
abusive, mean, negative part of the "jerk
personality".

I think that jerks JUST HAPPEN to also possess
several ATTRACTIVE qualities that are SO POWERFUL
that that they literally make women BLIND to the
abuse... women will rationalize and excuse the
abusive behavior because they are so attracted to
these other qualities.

Here's a PARTIAL list of what creates that
ATTRACTION:

- Unpredictable

- Uncontrollable

- Challenging

- Dominant
The qualities I've listed above, when presented
correctly, trigger the natural "attraction
mechanism" inside of women.

Jerks have taken natural qualities that are
ATTRACTIVE to women a little "too far".

But because they're still there, the qualities
trigger the attraction anyway.

So, try to get the attractive qualities of badboys.

2006-07-26 19:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bluelover 2 · 0 2

Me too , but its not that big problem if you stay with friends, you will not think about this unless you are alone all time with nothing to do.

2006-07-26 19:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

get some courage and ask some girl that you like out it dosn't have to be the hottest girl but go for it

2006-07-26 19:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Megan 2 · 1 0

it's ok for you to not have a girlfriend

2006-07-26 19:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 1 0

Be yourself period. That is all it takes.

2006-07-26 19:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by driver 5 · 1 0

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