I think it is degrading. My BF says it isn't, but that he doesn't want to do it anyway. But for some reason, in my mind, I get the feeling that it is very degrading. Where does that come from? I think it is hot to do lots of other things, just not that. I wouldn't even mind, if I could get around it not being degrading...weird. I sit on his face, and that's not bad, but I just can't handle the thought of having vum on my face. Yes, I swallow and all that!
2006-07-26 19:26:51 · 16 answers · asked by NorthernCA/FL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not saying that it should be OK for me to sit on his face, and not for him to *** on mine....just that I never thought of it *** being similar...
2006-07-26 19:35:50 · update #1
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2006-07-26 19:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 2⤊ 10⤋
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Why is it degrading for a guy to *** on a woman's face?
I think it is degrading. My BF says it isn't, but that he doesn't want to do it anyway. But for some reason, in my mind, I get the feeling that it is very degrading. Where does that come from? I think it is hot to do lots of other things, just not that. I wouldn't even mind, if I...
2015-08-20 06:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Annadiana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely not for everyone. I wouldn't ask my BF to do it, but he wanted to, I'd let him. I like it when he's pleased...it means more in return for me. I think if you tell your guy no, he'll be disappointed, but he'll get over it. We all have our fantasies...but that doesn't mean they always come true. Porn is probably where he got the idea from...yes. I think guys are misled that every woman can perform the same things that porn stars can. They are professionals...they have sex for a living...of course they're like super woman. You should only do what you're comfortable with...but sometimes it's nice to try something you'd never think to do. You may end up liking it.
2016-03-14 03:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing degrading about sex between consenting adults anything go's however it must be noted that we are different and like some things more than other things. The consideration of degrading should be left outside the bedroom door. The main thing is to have fun with it and enjoy each other.
2006-07-26 19:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a common perception....I think its because of the perceived power or control issue in the act...the guy standing over you, and your doing a very submissive thing. It can be kinda hard to handle when you take it that way. If the guy perceives it that way, then it can turn into that type of situation, which I don't agree with at all, especially if your not comfortable with that.
However, also remember that guys are very visual based. So just watching that for some guys can be a huge turn on. Lots of guys just want to do that because of the visual stimulation and not because of any power or control or anything. If you look at it that way, then its not so bad. The best way to feel comfortable out it is to ask your bf if he were to do that, how would he feel? If he talks about feeling manly or powerful, then chances are its more about the control and power of the situation....if thats not your thing, then don't agree. However if he's about just watching it spray or whatever, then he's visually cued up on it. If you want to just excite your man and rock his world and you can feel comfy with it, then go for it...try it...if it still wigs you out, then he'll have to live with the single visual for the rest of his life.
Don't do anything your not comfortable with. It should be fun for both of you...whether physically or emotionally knowing your rocking your partners world.
Also, if you do try it....don't get it in your eye...make sure they are closed...it can give you bad red eye for a few hours.
Have fun...hope this helps...feedback welcome
2006-07-26 19:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by chalis913 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I have never thought that it was "degrading' in any way.
I know a lot of girls do - but i think that comes from too much programming by the media. Too much cosmo.
Personally I think it is the SEXIEST thing a man does to me. There are some guys who think it is "degrading" too and so they don't want to do it - but I never seem to be able to give up having *** on my face for long and so I am never able to stay with those guys.
I think that if you understand sex as dirty, then you will get the idea that some sort of sexual act is degrading... but personally I thikn sex is great, and a LOT of fun... so I enjoy all of it. Especially getting a big hot facial.
Yummie... I am getting a tad excited just talking about it.
I think that sex is often times about power too - if you think that sex is a way that you can controll your guy, or if you think that sex is a way that you can have power over your guy - then I can see how you might be upset about having a guy *** on you...
How do you feel about him cumming all over you boobs?
2006-07-29 12:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by ***** 6 · 18⤊ 2⤋
Its not degrading at all. Its just something that turns some guys on. I mean, if both parties are willing, who is anyone to say what is degrading. If you don't like it, fair enough. But it is no more degrading than you sitting on your boyfriends face, or any number of other sexual fantasies.
2006-07-26 19:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Babber420 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Everyone likes different things. Its really awesome to try new and unusal things. I also used to find it degrading until I got even closer to my boyfriend. I know how much he loves me and I knew that was a fantasy of his. Why would I not want to make him happy. That just wouldn't make sense. Its not degrading, its just something that turns some guys on. They want to see you looking at it and they want to watch as they shoot it on you. They want to see that you like it and that no matter what they do, they turn you on. They dont want you thinking their some kind of bad person just because they have a fantasy. They want to be able to know they can share anything with you and you'll accept them. At first new things may seem weird or gross.. but over time you may be begging for things you never imagined you would. :)
2006-07-26 19:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
It is just another form of intimacy, and it is a little bit racy and wicked. Personally I like it when he sits on me this way... If you don't like it, then say so.
2014-04-24 10:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by copperbronze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions.It's not weird for you to *** on his face but degrading if he does it to you? I don't personally understand but that is your choice.
2006-07-26 19:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well i dont think you should worry about it. If your not comfortable with it then guys you date are going to have to deal with it. Everyone has something sexual that they are not comfortable with. Im just like you i dont want any guy blowing his load on my face. Just except it and it wont be a problem.
I hope i helped a bit.......
2006-07-26 19:35:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋