this guy i am going out with pretty often knows that i am having a boyfriend. but still he goes out with me and pays for dinner when we go out / meet ups. i can see that he enjoys going out with me. i have knew him for 5 years and we still go out. he does not mention much about my boyfriend ( whom he knows all along) . how do i know he he likes me or just regarding me as a good friend?
2006-07-26 19:08:52 · 13 answers · asked by dry_mk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a guy ..been there done that..hes just trying 2 get in your pants..he could care less u have a bf..or maybe he just thinks u should b with him instead and hes going 2 prove it by showering u with dinners and other stuff...guys think with their head not their head..u should try setting him up wit a date wit a friend or someone...and go on a double date with ur bf...just so u can really show that ur friends and nothing else..i mean unless u want something else..or just straight up tell him
2006-07-26 19:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always considered an honest mistake to misinterpret friendliness to affection. Human nature varies in so many ways particularly in the expression of feelings. The situation you are currently experiencing characterised the common notion for a person to appreciate another persons deed if it always meet his/her expectation. That notion seems to distort your perception that the guy cared for you when in fact he should have told you so a long time ago considering the span of time you have been with him. There are really people who find satisfaction treating good other person for the sake of intimate friendly relationship. Don't ever be fooled by your wrong perception and suffered the negative consequences. You seems to condition your mind that the guy have an affectionate feeling for you. This is just a normal product of constant companionship. Think about it.
2006-07-26 19:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by proelvispresley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask. If he is a good friend for five years he will tell you one way or another. If he likes you then you are ahead. If not and just a friend, then you are no worse off than now. And you will not have to wonder.
If you want an easy way, say something like:
Are you flirting with me or am I being vain and getting my hopes up?
2006-07-26 19:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kristonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's your friend, and after five years, that's all it will be, unless, you or he wish to change the status quo.
Seeing you know him that well, it's shouldn't be hard to ask that question of him.
Maybe if you didn't have a boyfriend, he'd make a move, who knows. Oh yeah, he knows, ask him hon, only way you will ever find out.
2006-07-26 19:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he touch you? Does he gaze into your eyes? Does he seem like he wants to be close to you? These are some of the ways you can tell if he's more interested in you. If he's not interested in you as more than a friend, then he will keep a physical distance from you, and there will be no sexuality in his presence.
2006-07-26 19:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends like that. You can either ask him or watch carefully the look in his eye if your shoulder strap falls slightly. That will tell you right then and there.
2006-07-26 19:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cheating on ur boyfriend i think he dnt lyk u cuz he knos tht u have a b/f who is his friend so and plus a gentlemen is suppose 2 do dat
2006-07-26 19:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by kristal b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my best guess is that he likes you, and he enjoys being with you...and well not mentioning your bf...makes him feel good atleast for the moment...and well why dont you ask him straight up
2006-07-26 19:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by jsdgam3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means he likes u, its obvious, especially if he's single and still hangs out with u
2006-07-26 19:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Puff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would risk it all and ask him like say "why do you do this"
If it don't work with that than ask him if he likes you
2006-07-26 19:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋