i am not handsome but i want to have a girlfriend
2006-07-26 18:54:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off, you need to drop that "i'm not good looking" crap. what you need to do is improve your attitude about youraelf. I have seen the ugliest of men get attractive women becasue their confidence level is so high. its tough, but if you just keep telling yourself that you are a good person, which you are, you can be more forward with women. let them see who you are and how glowing of a personality you have. it all starts on the inside. of course a little prep in dress, soem nice shoes, etc will not get you girls by itself, but it will accent your new found innerself. this all sounds so campy and deep, but dude, it will work. just have a little self discipline and patience.
2006-07-26 18:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by gallow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls do go for personality, and will always say that. I do know that many girls that say personality counts are very shallow and won't speak to a guy that they don't think is "cute" I am almost never physically attracted to a guy personally. I do however have a boyfriend. He's not the most attractive man in the world and he's a little on the heavy side. I still love him nonetheless. A good way to go about getting a girl is to be friends with her first. The first time you approach her you should talk about/discuss something that she enjoys. If a girl you like is reading a book and you love reading ask her about the book, what type of books she reads, or if she writes in her free time. If she needs help with something help her. Don't hit on her right away. A smart thing to do is to start out friends and try and work your way up from there.
2006-07-27 15:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress Hazard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being handsome is not required to make love.You need a penis.Turn out the lights and she will never know what you look like if you are that worried.
2006-07-27 03:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the lights out.
Sorry, I can tell you are serious.
Take this piece of wisdom from me, who really only started dating alot when I was in my 40s because I thought no woman would be attracted to me. Here is what I found out (to my surprise)....Every woman sees you differently. It's like 2 people looking at a painting and one thinks it sucks and the other thinks it's beautiful. And right now...there are women out there that will look at you and think you are ugly, women that think you are average, and women that think you are the best looking guy they have ever seen. It's true. So just keep looking. Don't let rejection get you down. And you WILL find the person that thinks you are great.
Good luck.
2006-07-27 02:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get an angle. As a woman I know of some that work but the best is to be her knight in shining armour. Open honest communication, and treat her like a queen. Massage techniques make women melt. Treat her right though and do not use this just to get some. Be serious with her.
2006-07-27 01:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are shallow. In fact there are lots more shallow men than shallow girls. Girls like guys who are sweet, pay attention to them, don't check out other girls in front of them, and make them laugh.
Do you have a sexy voice? If so, work off that too. That's a turn on.
Besides I'm sure you're handsome. And even if you don't think so, there are prolly lots of people who think you are.
2006-07-27 01:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Fanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If making love is what you are after than wait for the right woman to come along. Appearances are not always the key to the bedroom door. Just because a man is cute doesn't mean I want to share my intimate moments with him a girl will appreciate Witt personality and a genuine gentleman.
Slow your role; Wait for the right woman than wait for the right moment. When it is right for both of you, you will know.
2006-07-27 02:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by girlsm9frmgod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is in the eye of the beholder. There is always someone that will think your handsome. Be patient and proud.
2006-07-27 01:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the true love wchich have decided in HEAVEN --knows no bounds.They never sees any thing.So there is no question of handsome or poor or any thing.A king can fall in love with a beggar.
2006-07-27 01:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone considers Ron Jeremy handsome
2006-07-27 01:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋