I am so depressed right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year and half and i cant stop thinking about him. He called me but i missed his call today and tried to call him back but he wasnt there. Should i just wait till he calls me? I have been praying for everything in my life to get better. Also i have financial problems and struggling to afford school in the fall.
2006-07-26 18:49:11 · 11 answers · asked by jenks1545 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just wait until he calls you, unless you really need to talk to him, then you can just say you were returning his call. I'm sorry, I can't really do anything for you but write words, I hope that's enough. I fully believe that this hard time in your life will pass and you will get over it. Right now it seems as if you're about to burst and there's nothing you can do about it, you think that maybe just laying down and getting lost in oblivion will help you, but in the long run it won't. Honey, you can't just pray for something to happen. You need to help God by helping yourself. If you pray to do well on a test but don't study, you won't pass. It is ultimately your choice on how to live your life. Don't let this one moment in time bring you down. I hope I don't sound preachy when I say this, but assuming you're a religious person, I hope it's ok. God would not give you this challenge if He knew you couldn't overcome it. No one (not even Jesus himself) got through life without struggle and pain. It is with these trials and tribulations that we get stronger. Just try to get through life and don't dwell and wallow in things. My suggestion is talk with your boyfriend, be friends (if you can handle it) because you still care for him and he cares for you. You can't be in a relationship for a year and a half and not have a bond. If the issue of breaking up was infidelity you need to forgive him because in order to be strong, you need to forgive. As for financial problems, there are student loans and you can get a part-time job. As William Shakespeare once said, "It is not in the starst to hold our destiny, but in ourselves." I may be doing too much for this answer, blowing it out of proportion, but hey, it's an interesting read, huh? Good luck
2006-07-26 19:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your relationship, I know how much it hurts when things like that breakdown. Unless you're willing to patch things up (and he is too), I wouldn't wait for the phone to ring. I know this will sound hollow in view of how difficult things seem right now, but trust the Lord to take care of you (read Matthew chapter 6 to see what Jesus says about worry and the future). As bad as things seem right now, I'd suggest that you pray for God to put the right people in your life, and for Him to let you know when the right one comes along. I did that about 20 years ago, and two months later my wife walked into my life and it's been awesome ever since. I wish there was more I could do, but the constraints of chatrooms and technology pretty much limit that. Hang in there, and eventually things will turn around - I promise.
2006-07-27 01:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by mrkwooley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ow..I am touched by your plight..Don't try to grab on too tight, he might feel like it is a trap..An OUTSTANDING book that will give almost instant insight and is an easy read,is called "Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus",,But better yet is" The 10 Stupid Things Women do to Mess Up Their Lives" by Dr Laura Sleshinger...Take the time to check them out, Because the rest of your life is pending on your decisions today.God Bless and good luck.TTJ
2006-07-27 02:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by tent trailer jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for you, I'm sure things will resolve themselves, in regard to your boyfreind. We all have bustups sometimes. A short time apart soon makes us realize how much we miss each other.
2006-07-27 01:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by waterborn69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i 'll pray God gives you strength and i know about the finances sometimes i tell God things are just to stressful right now,i need a break i need something good to happen help with money etc...
he always helps me and i will pray he will help you too
2006-07-27 01:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things are just meant to be, no matter how bad it may seem now, there will always be someone better. If you really feel so strongly about him, and he cares for you and does'nt hurt you, tell him and see how he feels.
2006-07-27 01:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by JoeThatUKnow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a good counselor. I will pray for you.
2006-07-27 01:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by atreadia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find peace with god you will be much happeir i will pray that depression does not mess with your mind and make you weak. you should call him i bet he thinks you are ingoring him just try if he does not answer that is his fault not yours
Smile jesus loves you!! :)
2006-07-27 01:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by liveslifelikeitcomes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Err...isn't there a relationships area? If there isn't, there should be. Hmmm...
Since you're Christian, God didn't intend for you two to be together.
Or, the realistic answer, you didn't put out.
2006-07-27 01:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Tarantism 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural to feel depressed in a situation like this all I can say is call him and see if y'all can get back together or see how he feels about y'all situation.
2006-07-27 01:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋