--to finally be ready to enter a real relationship.
I've been holding off my emotions, and stepping back whenever I get close to getting into a relationship with a guy. Like i can never trust myself into be in that kind of situation or commitment. But now i think im ready..because there's like guy i like..and i think he kinda likes me too..
.how\ where do i start???
2006-07-26 18:41:58 · 24 answers · asked by HiLovely 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start anywhere except sex. Seriously.
2006-07-26 18:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by TruthIsRelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you old enough and is he. Do not do anything you are not ready for and even watch out with the experimentation. But if you are both old enough take it slow, talk to him and spend quality time together. Please do not jump into sex or anything until you have been together in a real relationship for at least a month or two. Preferably longer if you are young. Wait until you are engaged for that if you can. But to start the relationship just all day or all night talks. Learn about each other. Enjoy this feeling. It goes away all too quickly and you will never find it again.
2006-07-27 01:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly- You kno u can commit now- and thats GREAT.
So without worry you can dive into the ocean of love and sustain all those barriers that come by in time of a relationship.
While in a relationship you both become responsible for eachother- you'l should be able to stand eachother- and both should be cool and totally comfortable with eachother and yeah you both should be physically attracted to eachother too.
If all these things are ter(i just mentioned above) then you can get into a relationship by first talking to th guy, then shariing with the guy,then holding secrets for your guy, then spending alone time with your guy and then you both will bond.
and then the relation will start and you both have to balance this boat. Yes!
So if you think.or if this guy like you an dhas mae a effort to be with u then u know ......he is ready to dive.
2006-07-27 01:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let go and take things slow.. Giving your heart away can be hard at times, specially since there are those instances you're left up picking up the pieces. But give it a chance, if you don't you'll never have a real relationship. If you dont let go, you can't learn from your mistakes, or appreciate the blessing that a fulfilling relationship can bring. Good Luck!
2006-07-27 01:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put everything in emotional perspective. What will feel worse, in retrospect - holding off and being filled with regret and wondering what could have been...or going for it and possibly having rejection or letdown and not getting your guy, but possibly having a great outcome, and either way not feeling regretful and down at yourself. Just keep in mind that with the former option you won't get anything that you want, and with the latter you have a shot at great satisfaction.
2006-07-27 01:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think now u shud slowly start making him realise tat he is special to u. Take it forward step by step . Small gestures and words can do wonders....!!!
And there can be nothing more than spending time together...try n do this i m sure u will get him.
All the best
2006-07-27 01:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by loking4_party_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of call the guy up and just start talking ask him questions and the conversation will just flow! then ask him if he wants to hang at the mall or something cuz if he says yes then when u 2 meet up he will surely make a move! then if he does make a move tell him that you really like him! it should do the trick! good luck!
2006-07-27 01:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I've kinda learn, that life is all about taking risks, and not worrying only on the negative what if's. So...take a risk and see where this relationship might just end up...do I hear wedding bells?
2006-07-27 01:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will come naturally when the right guy comes along. You won't have to "do" anything, except give the guy some of your time. My best advise however, is prayer. Pray about it regularly and God will guide you and your emotions and actions if you let Him.
2006-07-27 01:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence: Just Do It
Commitment: Make sure both of you are ready for this HARD WORK.
2006-07-27 01:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by John D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with a date or something and
anything simple like the movies
or at the mall.
make sure on the dat
feel confident happy.
2006-07-27 01:45:02 · answer #11 · answered by Paige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋