How do i make him stop looking at me in wierd ways. and he touches me strangely.
2006-07-26 18:37:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your parents ASAP...if he's done MORE than you've said you have to talk about that too...
Don't be scared, you'll feel SO much better afterwards and it won't happen anymore...
He'll deny it and act like you "misunderstood" but he'll be scared and will leave you alone.
Then do NOT go around him ANYMORE-refuse and don't feel bad, it's not YOUR fault...
2006-07-26 18:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone. Let your uncle you don't like it, whatever he is doing. If you are too scared bring someone along who understands your feelings. Or tell the police. You don't deserved to be treated in a way you don't like or to be abused. Who knows if this keeps going on it could result in rape! Do something about it, you have a voice speak up and be heard. Many people go through the same thing. Good question.
2006-07-27 01:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by curious? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, try your hardest never to be alone in a room with him.
Unfortunately there isnt much you can do to stop him looking, but you can stop him doing anything more about it. The next time he goes to touch you, move away sharply and say loudly "Uncle ---, please don't do that. I'm not comfortable with it."
Talk to your parents or siblings as well, and they should support you and either stop having him over to the house or at least protect you when he is there.
2006-07-27 11:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by joji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... Recently my friend who is 15 years old came to me with her story. Her uncle was sexually abusing her. It started when she was thirteen. He would stare at her then a few days after her 14th b-day she stayed with him (it was her moms 25 year old brother -who happened to be her favorite uncle- so it was usual for her to spend the night there) and he started touching her "inapropriately" that night and ended up having sex with her later that year when she stayed with him. She didn't want to say anything to any of her family members though, because she didn't want them to ask him (for obvious reasons). Se wound up telling her counciller. She is now seeing a specialist regularly. Please tell someone if it gets worse or if he continues. I know you don't know me, but I can give you my friends s/n if you need to talk. Maybe she can help you out with your problem. She is really sweet.
2006-07-27 02:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by klutz4life147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
salman78_2002 YOU sir are a filthy pig! This is no joking matter!
I'd talk to an adult you trust. Tell them that you feel uncomfortable and report this to the police. You can have him arrested for that!
Do NOT let someone take advantage of you. If you don't stand up for yourself, no one else will! If he touches you again, kick him in the nuts!
2006-07-27 01:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AVOID HIM
NEVER be with him alone... If he ever touches you, act out of your mind... threaten him and freak out... Draw as much attention as possible. When somewon comes to help you, tell them in front of your uncle whats been going on.
Lets hope it not get to this point, Tell your family Friends or who ever is in charge of your care about this immediately, it could escalate into quite a dangerous situation, possibly lead to rape, its alot more common than people think
I wish you courage and bravery
2006-07-27 01:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by salizjad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell someone right away, it isn't right. If you feel uncomfortable when he does it then tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop then tell someone. Don't be scared about what is going to happen to him, it's his own fault because he did it. You have to do it now or this will hurt you for a long time. Trust me I know. Not with my own experience but ppl i know.
2006-07-27 01:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by a.t.j.gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone right away because he isn't going to stop.
Let your parents know. If they don't believe you or pretend it's not happening tell someone else. But, whatever you do, keep telling someone until someone believes you. Church or school are good options.
If he succeeds in getting what he wants, eventually, he'll try to control you by telling you that no one will believe you and if you tell someone he will hurt them. Don't believe him!
You must stand up for yourself even if no one else will.
2006-07-27 01:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop and tell sum one u trust and make it loud and clear so others can hear u tell him to stop and make it clear to him u dont like it and stay away from him but most importantly tell sum one
2006-07-27 01:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by brenda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are as cute as you look in the picture. i doubt he would stop. you can either threaten him in your own way to stop looking and touching you in an inappropriate way or you can continue to enjoy the attention.
2006-07-27 01:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Salman Hashmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋