how do i get my "boyfriend" to love me a bit more?

Answer 1

you can't change people. they are who they are.

you need to have enough self confidence in yourself to leave him if he doesn't come around and prove his love for you.

Answer 2

for a bit more love which isn't asking much I would say cook his favorite meal or order out his favorite meal and surprise him with it. You can buy him a present of meaning for around a hundred bucks or so and surprise him with it. You can give him full power over the remote control. You can buy some sex toys and ask him to help you figure out how to use them. You can mow the lawn or do some chore that he would normally do and let him rest. You could invite one of your girlfriends over and surprise him with a threesome I guarantee you'll get some more loving around the house if you do just a couple of these tricks. hope this helps and you better believe you can squeeze out a little bit more love from somebody. I've done it using different tactics designed for women and it works. It's a two way street!

Answer 3

Love is not about manipulating things to be loved. He simply love you or he doesn't, but you both can grow in love if you keep on spending quality time together, talking with all honesty. If he doesn't love you the way you want to be loved and you keep on thinking that way...your relationship might grow apart because he will never meet your expectations. If you love him just as he is and you be yourself, he will notice how kind and patient you are and love will change him. And if he doesn't? Then at least you've grown to love. And that will only prepare you for the next man you will be with.

Answer 4

Love yourself a little bit more. If you can't love yourself, how can you expect someone else to?

Accept your "boyfriend" as an individual with his own limits and desires. Sounds like you need to love him a little more as he is than as you want him to be.

Answer 5

The truth of the matter is that it's not up to you, either he will or he wont. There's nothing you can do to make him love you more since really you wont be doing what ever it is that makes him love you more because it's who you are. As lame as it sounds the only way to get people to like you, for who you are and not what you want them to think you are, is to be yourself.
If you're still in high school, I hate to be the one to brake this to you, but more then likely you're not going to end up married to your current boyfriend. Especially when you refer to him as your "boyfriend".

Answer 6

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Answer 7

U can't. Love is something that develops over time. May sound crappy, but it's true. Unless their an ***hole. Then there are many ways to do so, but let's not go there.

Answer 8

Girl, I don't think it's possible. You just have to accept the amount of love he has and way in which he gives it to you, and if you can't accept that, then trade him in. I'm in the same situation myself right now.

Answer 9

the question should be- how can be a better person so that i could love my self better? Your boyfriend just is not into you. so be sad about it just move on

Answer 10

I'ts true you cant make somebody love you if they dont love you. But i think you should go out do your hair buy a cute outfit and look sexy for him he would be like dam girl. But he should love you for who you are.

Answer 11

love him a bit more