Okay I've known this girl for about three years and we've dated off and on the whole time. But everytime that we've broken up was because she flirts with everyone out there and while we were going out she would sneek out and hang out with some of her ex's. She's also admitted to me while we were dating that she like a couple other guys. Every one tells me that she treats me like crap yet I still go back. I just need to know what you think.
Thanks
2006-07-26 18:19:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think thatverytime u start dating her again, u tell urself that this time it'll be different, but it never is. It sounds to me that u are too good for this girl. Let her play her games with someone else. Move on! Good Luck!! :)
P.S.: It's her loss, not yours. :)
2006-07-26 18:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want more from the relationship than she does. She is not going to change, but you can. Get out and a better relationship will find you. Why stay with her? Do you expect her to suddenly realize she loves only you and give up all of the other guys? It's not your fault. There is nothing you can do. I've been there, done that. It really doesn't matter if you like her a lot, or even love her. What this is really about is risking being alone to give yourself a chance at real happiness. As long as you are with her the right girl will NOT come along.
2006-07-26 18:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she is the first girl you slept with/dated.Then definitely dump her b/c she knows she can jerk you around. regardless sounds like you have puppy love for her, which is hard to break when you are young, but it needs to be done quickly and don't look back. b/c obviously she isn't.
The fact that you are even asking this question to a group of strangers shows you already know the answer ;)
Good luck. Remember you don't need to be In a relationship just fro the sake of just being in one, like most women do.
2006-07-26 18:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Patrick Bateman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't change and she sounds like she never will. She likes being a flirt and it almost seems like she wants to either intentially tick you off to see your reaction or because she always thinks she can do better. I think you can do better. Three years of this and you've still gotten back together? Time to turn her loose and find yourself a decent woman.
2006-07-26 18:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by bigjoe760 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not that into you, like you are her, turn the tables on her, and start flirting with other girls infront of her, ask another girl for her number and see what she does, when she get's made & she will, just say, I didn't want the number, just wanted you to see how it feels to get it back in your face.
2006-07-26 18:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give another girl a chance to be loyal to you. They do exist you know. You're just hung up on her. You need to try someone else out. You deserve better.
2006-07-26 18:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Hi there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not ready to be in a relationship. you need to either let her go until shes ready to settle down or move on to someone else. men shouldnt treat women that way and women shouldnt treat men that way. just dont spend your life waiting for something that may never happen. either way i wish you luck.
2006-07-26 18:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to work on your self-esteem and dump the little hoochie momma. You deserve better and nobody can treat you like crap unless you let them....stop letting her!
2006-07-26 18:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think every one's right! u should go w/ a girl that doesn't like u only....
2006-07-26 18:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do beter.. dont go back to her again.. tell her shes a ***** and should get a life!
2006-07-26 18:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋