why is it when u want this guy and u get with him and after u get with him u dont want him so u call quits and soon as its all said and done with u want him again and get all bent when he is with someone else and yall are the ones that ended in the first place this has happened to me a few times but once its over there no coming back the hell with going threw that again
2006-07-26 18:08:51 · 23 answers · asked by hollowman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woman want what they cant have... once she had you she was done, or so she thought. so she let you go. but once you were gone she realized she wasnt done and wants you back! women are not simple creatures!
2006-07-26 18:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by sarahdancer123 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Ok, this is how it is. Once a girl gets the guy she desires there is no chase anymore, she won. Then it get's boring, so she breaks up with you. Then after not seeing you in a while she misses you and wants to get you back. At this point, you are a chase again so it is interesting. Then when you don't want her back she gets sad and knows it's over so she once again forgets about you. I know this may sound stupid but if you really like the next girl who walks into your life and she breaks up with you, don't think it is over. Just wait and she will be back. If she doesn't come back in two weeks it really was over when the two of you broke up the first time. Good luck!
2006-07-26 18:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know that is that getting a guy is half of the fun--if not all of it. Please do not get me wrong, women enjoy having boyfriends that are not controlled by us. A man that is too nice, is too boring. A man that is too rude, is a jerk. I mean does a man really want a woman to do anything he asks? No, because half the fun of a relationship is discovering what makes the other person tick. I once dated the nicest guy I have ever met and we lasted about two months. Why, he would have hopped around the block on one foot if I had asked him too. How can I respect that. Maybe, you are too nice and the ladies are unsure how to deal with you. It is important to keep your space in the beginning so that not too much info. is revealed.
2006-07-26 18:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy Sarongs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it isn't a matter of why but a matter if you are going to allow it to happen. Find someone that appreciates you for who you are not someone that just needs you or wants you as long as they do and then throws you out. Realize that you deserve more and find people that care about you. You already know what to look for because you already know how it feels. These people that don't treat you nicely probably just go home and forget about you. Why spend so much time worrying about people that don't treat you as well as you deserve. Find some special people to be with or be around. Don't settle for anything less.
2006-07-26 18:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyandcarefree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is an immature girl thing,and she is not quite yet a lady in her real feelings yet towards the person .I really have not ever done this to a guy,at all,ever.If anything,it was a mutual thing,and the guy forgot the mess that pulled us apart,or his ego,or whatever drives a guy to mix-up the ending.I agree,it does hurt and doing it over again,can never really happen..so ,best to move on.
2006-07-26 18:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the same reason guys do it... the thrill of the chase...once we're with you, it's over.. you're not chasing, we're not playing hard to get... there's nothing there... the on-again, off-again thing is our way of trying to get that back there and as for getting bent when yall are with someone else, it's cuz we didn't expect you to move on so quickly
2006-07-26 18:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by ami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one I think you have been findin the wrong ones and 2 they cant make up their minds or just wantin to play games and the thrill of the chase and then ends then not sure what they had to begin w/ maybe? we all never know what we have till gone , maybe was playin ya to see if ya cared enough and would want back like a hard to get thing?????
2006-07-26 18:12:32 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 09:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like a competition thing, I have done this myself when I was alot younger and I looked at it as if I was going for the trophy and then throwing it away and then going back to win the same trophy.
2006-07-26 18:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by whatdousay2that 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should read men are from mars women are from venus. totally good insight on why women/men do what they do.
i think for some people it is the thrill of the chase, and then they get bored and think the grass is greener and then when they are unhappy and you are with someone new, they realize how dumb they were to have given up a good thing.
2006-07-26 18:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by sdmiasd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman". I know your dealing with little girls.Sounds like childs play even if there age say diffrent. dont give up you will meet a mature woman some day if thats what your looking for.
2006-07-26 18:22:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋