2006-07-26 18:06:31 · 29 answers · asked by Bulu 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
isn't it so time pass question in todays culture ? my friend now a days everyone have this thing b4 marry to any one just for taste or u can say trial
2006-07-26 19:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Friend4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say 'selected for marriage', it sounds like you have a few to choose from and that makes me wonder if you yourself is a virgin or not. Otherwise you shouldn't expect her to be one either. And like some have already voiced out, if you are going to marry her, whether she is a virgin or not, it shouldn't matter. If not, you don't love her and shouldn't be marrying her in the first place.
2006-07-27 03:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by immortalruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she noes whether U r a virgin?? anyway y r u so bothered with little piece of flesh all the way down there?? u shud marry a person for love not for sex if u r so bothered n disturbed with the fact tht is she a virgin or not thn call the whole thing off coz u noe y if she is a virgin u wud get married to her n whn u go to work n come home frm work u'd be wondering is she having an affair wit the hunk nx door coz he's handsome
n guys like u dun deserve to get married
2006-07-27 01:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to know is to just ask her. If you're marrying her, it is because you trust her and love her regardless of anything.
Going to a gynecologist isn't going to prove anything. When people think virginity they think about an intact hymen without realizing that using tampons, horse back riding and gymnastics can break it.
Virginity really means a person who has not had intercourse and the only way to find that out is if you ask her.
2006-07-27 01:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet_Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. If you cant trust her then perhaps you should rethink marriage. Ask her and be open and honest with her. Also a broken hymen doesnt always mean that she's been with a man. Some women have very thin hymens that can tear while riding a bike or participating in sports.
2006-07-27 01:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Adrianna Christens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly and medically there is no way to tell but if it bothers you that the girl is a virgin then maybe you should ask her then if you still sont believe then maybe its not the right person.
the hymen can get torn from a female using tampons or playing sports so you can't just addume because it is tore that she has had sex.
2006-07-27 01:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by abcdefg.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know for sure, if you doubt her word. Some women don't bleed the first time, and you can break your hymen by riding a bike, so the best advice truly is to ask her.
2006-07-27 01:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by boogiewunker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well pal frankly speaking there is not way to find it out, and I m not aware from which community you are, but the best way is to talk with her everything clearly.
BUT IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN DON'T EXPECT SOMETHING CLEAR FROM HER SIDE TOO CZ GOD GOOD WOMEN FOR GOOD MAN AND BAD FOR THE BAD-VICE VERSA
2006-07-30 04:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by like_2b_frank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you're from a different culture so i won't write what i was originally going to write but just have her go to a GYN to confirm that she still has her hymen in tact. I doubt she's done extreme things to break it growing up... and tampons do not break hymens. Also, you can def find out on your wedding night... but you should trust her word
2006-07-27 01:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact you use the word girl twice in that sentence sends off warning signals....she's a woman...
2006-07-27 03:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋