While I was at work today this woman made an issue out of the fact that she was told I took an attendance folder out of a class. I did not do that.
It turned out an assistant did. Then she yelled at another teacher. Three teacher's quit because of her. She is never wrong and is always right.
How would you deal with this evil woman. I almost hate to even look at her evil face.
2006-07-26 18:05:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Purchase the book "Winning Office Politics." In it, is everything you need to know to deal with whackjobs like her, and everyone in between. I think this book should be required reading in college!
2006-07-26 18:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to smile.. and keep at about it. Smile and say, Hi, I was wondering if you could do me a favor.. Could you smile?
I did this to a co worker once and finally the person couldn't stop smiling.. It also changed their disposition from grumpy and mean to light and cheerful.
Sometimes there is something a person has a challenge with. Be persistant and kind about it. Hope the person can feel the change. But don't get mean. Don't allow her negativety rub on you.
Have a super day! (Another thing to say when you walk away from your interaction with her.)
2006-07-27 01:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by mwmn35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her laugh. Over time you will see that it will work. Some people have unruley dispositions but overtime you can break her down. She just needs some one to be like that with her. Make a joke the next time she says some evil comment like "Woo girl simmer down:" and smile. You will get to her trust me.
2006-07-27 01:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by cdawncoffey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is clearly a very unhappy person. Remembering that generally helps me deal with those kind of people.
Look into emotional or social intelligence. It can help you figure out how people operate and how to deal with them.
2006-07-27 01:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work with a couple of women like that. Just real bitches. I handle it by being nice and curteous to them unless they say something offensive to me, at which time i immediately stand up and let them know i caught it...and i didn't like it. They back down fast, as i'm sure she would also.
2006-07-27 01:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by chelojelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing would probably be to avoid her as much as you can, and when you cant, try to be as low-key and polite as possible
2006-07-27 01:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Isealdor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋