2006-07-26 17:55:57 · 24 answers · asked by Bulu 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Infectious Diseases
Umm, get tested?
2006-07-26 17:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there....
I don't want to sound pessimistic but I must pass this along to you... HPV.. which can lead to cervical cancer in some women can be passed skin to skin contact.. and has NO symptoms..
Unless there are VISIBLE genital warts... not all warts are created equal.. the worse ones are strains of the virus that cannot be seen...people don't know they have it! There is currently NO test for men for HPV (Human Pappaloma Virus) - genital warts... Women can now be tested for HPV through a
"wet" pap smear and this will detect the virus...
Some STDs exhibit no symptoms.... THIS IS VERY SCAREY!!
I also believe that HIV/AIDS can take up to 10 years to manifest so you can get tested and test negative and some years later be tested and test positive...
I think that virgins are the only safe ones and there aren't too many virgins left on this planet... get tested... she should get tested... Unless you are a virgin, YOU could have something yourself and not know.. it doesn't just happen to people who have multiple partners.... It could happen from sex with one person.. one time... don't be naive when it comes to STDs... play it safe!!! Best wishes on your marriage....
2006-07-27 01:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl1_forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Dr (together) & tell them you want an Aids test. It's a simple blood draw. The results are confidential and will be in written form and given only to the person the test was being drawn for. After the results are in, you can then share the paper work.
2006-07-27 01:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some test. With all the moden technology now u can do just in few seconds. By the way, why do u want to marry someone like that...?
2006-07-27 01:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONly a guy would say GET A PAP SMEAR. What is that going to prove? Go to you rlocal health dept. and get tested. Some states require it before you get married anyway.
2006-07-27 00:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kari S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a virgin? If so most likely she doens't have anything. But have her go to the doctor and get a pap smear and some other test. Hey, it's better to be safe.
2006-07-27 00:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the health department together and get tested.
2006-07-27 00:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by nflhandicapper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me get this right you want to marry someone but don't trust them to be without HIV/STD you got issues
2006-07-27 01:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her. If she says no and you don't believe her you shouldn't marry her anyway. If she doesn't know or is unsure just go and get tested.
2006-07-27 00:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to get tested, and offer to go with her and get a test yourself too!
2006-07-27 00:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by silverchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you don't "hurt her feelings", suggest that you both get blood tests done. To make sure your are both healthy. You never know....
2006-07-27 00:58:18 · answer #11 · answered by Golden Hair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋