Given: You have 20 hours of freetime
How many family hours? -- no Kids would be involved
How many friend hours?
How many fiance hours?
How many alone hours?
2006-07-26 17:43:43 · 18 answers · asked by the_texas_hammer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are a fiance then you should also be considered a family member and a friend. And as a fiance, you get alone hours too. So pretty much all of the free time except for personal grooming. :)
Seriously, if you are asking this then there is obviously something you are not happy with. It is difficult to deal with every relationship at the same time as you are developing a lifelong relationship with a significant other. Try not to get jealous and make the time you do spend together count. Try not to be demanding of specific amounts of time.
I would much rather spend 20 minutes of massage time together than 5 mandated and scheduled hours of regimented "relationship" time.
The quality should be more important than the actual time spent.
I would much rather spend an evening with my family and share momentary glances with my lover than spend a "scheduled" time slot with him. Be more spontaneous and you will find you spend the whole day building the relationship rather than trying to fit it in with everything else.
Good luck.
2006-07-26 17:51:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kristonia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is more individual and depending on what both parties agree on. Most younger couple make the mistake of thinking that they must spend all of their time together as "proof" of their love. However, even a person you love very much cannot be the "all" of your life", so of course you must spend time with other friends, spending time alone, etc. The problems come when the two in the relationship differ on their time together, which is the only time they need to agree on. The time the other person spends with family or friends is really only the business of that person.
2006-07-26 17:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by gahrahstah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to break it down like that, then you should push off the wedding as long as possible. You need some space before you get permanently attached for the rest of your lives! And you need to grow up. Free time is free time no matter where it's spent. And if you have to schedule your fiance's free time, then it's not really free time then, is it?
2006-07-26 17:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for your fiance, but if you were my fiance and started trying to make a schedule for how often we should hang out etc, I'd call off the engagement.
2006-07-26 17:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by laetusatheos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My splendid project in this subject is your fiance's attachment to her Dad. She seems to be insecure of their dating and that i'm thinking her readiness for marriage at this element in her existence. whilst is your wedding ceremony date? regardless of if it quite is in a pair of weeks then i might think of she is in simple terms very busy getting all the final minute information of the marriage accomplished. If the marriage is countless months from now, I do ask your self what she is doing all the days she does not see you. Do she and her Dad spend the time golf or fishing or appearing some interest they gained't have any possibility to do after she marries you? sounds like she is having an unusual quantity of separation rigidity from her Dad. How previous is she? Has she ever lived removed from residing house? What do the two certainly one of you do once you're together? i think of there is something not rather top occurring right here. in case you marry this woman, i've got faith you stand of undertaking of continuously coming in 2d appropriate to her Dad. it quite is stable to renowned now so which you're able to make a number of your guy or woman judgements approximately marriage---fairly today. It sounds such as you have tried to have some discussions approximately your dating along with her and that's stable. think of roughly it, why does she might desire to cut up herself from you as a manner to spend greater time with him, fairly once you 2 paintings distinctive shifts and function issue seeing one yet another besides? by using the way, working 2 distinctive shifts can create issues in any marriage. somebody needs to discover yet another interest, top now. Or somebody needs to paintings in the direction of getting a greater effective coaching to qualify for a greater effective interest. i think of you 2 might desire to think returned marriage plans for a whilst.
2016-12-10 15:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever works for the two of you.
If you can't come to a workable agreement and compromise in this area, i would definitely reconsider the engagement. There are probably other problem areas as well.
2006-07-26 17:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living life 10 minutes at a time...there is not an expecific time or way to do or have things in life.What ever is ,already is...you can only adjust somethings around but cant have control over it-good luck
2006-07-26 17:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Canela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be a set amount of time they spend with you. Just enjoy the time that you have with them, you'll be with them for the rest of your life (hopefully). If you tell them how much time they should spend with you, they're not going to want to be with you. You'll get your time with them...
2006-07-26 17:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. i've been told i'm rather clingy..i'd spend all my free time with my boyfriend if i could because he's like my best friend. but other people like to have more free time. i'd say
fiance hours:10-15
2006-07-26 17:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fince and u all tha time. cuz that is how it is going to be when u are married!! got to think about those things. maybe when u sleep u can get some alone time and MAYBE lunch with ur friends. lol get used to it its gonna be married life lol
2006-07-26 17:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋