I love my girlfriend but i was over my friends house and he told me he saw my girlfriend making out with another guy from my school. I trust my friend cuz he is on my basketball team and we are great friends. I also trust my girlfriend and she denies it? Should i break up with her or stay with her? Who do you think is lying?
2006-07-26 17:20:33 · 22 answers · asked by J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The question is who do you think is lying? The problem is the situation is already a mess. Sit her down in a nice quiet atmosphere and tell her eye-to-eye that a relationship without honesty is no relationship at all. Even if she is telling you the truth and you don't believe her then that means you don't trust her no matter what she is telling you. Give yourself some alone time to reflect, and make a concientious decision to commit staying with her or breaking ties with her. Then reward yourself (read a good book, run, eat your favorite food) for making the decision and don't look back. Don't listen to your gf, your friend, etc. Listen to what your mind, body, and soul is telling you.
2006-07-26 17:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lily Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, as the only girl answering this question.. Take a look at what she does.
And first of all, a kiss is nothing. If they were tounge tied then thats different. It is a great possiblitly that your bro is lying dude. If hes got a crush on her then he might say crap to get you to break up, so he can make a move. Think before you act.
And if you are in love with her, then the two of you will work it out. But if you dump her, just know that you might be making a huge mistake.. Think with your heart, not with your head..
Are you in love with her?
Love can get through anything....
2006-07-27 00:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by angel eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, u have to think real hard about how much u trust ur friend. Think about if ur friend has a secret crush on ur girl, or if he has ever seemed kinda jealous. If he has, then he's probably lying. Then, u have to think about how much u trust ur girlfriend. Has she ever flirted with guys around u? If u know the guy she was supposedly making out with: Have u ever seen her flirt or make any flirty comments with him? I hope I helped, and I hope u figure it out soon! Good Luck!! :)
P.S.: I'm glad u trust ur gf. My ex would have FREAKED if he ever heard wind of me doing that!
2006-07-27 00:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point of time u cannot take any decision.
Just wait for a while.
U will get to know who is deceiving u.
B'cas no one can deceive u for a longer time.
Normally in this kind of situations i doubt on girls.
But check out if ur friends has a crush on ur girl and doing some
thing wrong to get her.
ok
All the best
2006-07-27 00:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by good_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the question is who have u known longer and has ur friend ever lied to u in the past . well if ur friend is non of these talk to ur girlfriend about the situation. or if he has lied to u before then i think u should stay with her. or if u dont want to talk to her about the situation then u should just wait if ur friend see her again with a different guy or the same one then break up with her.
2006-07-27 00:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by alycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the other guys name and confront him about it. I kind of think your friend is telling the truth because why else would he tell you something like that but confront the other guy even with her right there. It's not worth fighting over but it would ease your mind hey if it is true there are other fish in the sea and friends are friends forever.. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-27 00:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by worried about our country 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. and if u hear a rumor or smthing like this again and u confront her and she denys it then u should prolly break it off with her. but it has to be from someone else then ur friend that told u tha first time. cuz if its tha same one then he might just be jealous or smthing.
2006-07-27 00:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by sara ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way I see it has your girl friend ever lie to before? if so she probably is now so dump her if not then i would get my Friend and my girl friend in the same room and make sure it was actually her that he saw and not some look alike
2006-07-27 00:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should trust both of them until to find out the truth.
one way is to have your friend say this to her face, You never really know the reason why people lie, but don't talk to much about it just watch
2006-07-27 00:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one hard to say could be eather one, always hidden agendas, but maybe just lay back an keep eyes all open try to see if ya cant catch her but also see if ya can catch your friend its like a game to be played, just make sure there when goes down
2006-07-27 00:24:05 · answer #10 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋