How do YOU get past the nervousness? If I see someone I'm atracted to I get so nervous. Its not working for me.....
2006-07-26 17:15:37 · 13 answers · asked by D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why you should feel nervous about meeting some one new, I can't understand that.
Look on it as an adventure. nerves are fine, they keep you on your toes. Use the nerves, instead of fighting them.
Hey make him nervous, you're a gal, dress up, give him your best shot, if you aren't sure about what to wear to knock his socks off, ask a friend, But I'm sure you know what you look really good in.
Pretend it's tennis, knock the ball into his side of the court, it will be fun, meeting him.
Think of it as a game, which it is.
Sharpen up and tone up your skills, learn some good flirting techniques. learn how to lick your lips, smile at him, lower your eyes.Those are your tools, your weapons of war, my dear, so get out there, and give him the works.
If all goes well, you can name your first boy child after me, :)
2006-07-26 17:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breath and smile from your heart, and remember, they're possibly just as nervous as you are, and make sure you have interesting things to talk about, besides the weather.
2006-07-27 00:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly breathe deeply and start conversing on topics that are intellctually stimulating. take a control on yourself saying nothing other than that you are smart and an attractive person yourself. and dont ogle at the person so much so that in the end you both are left with no words and embarass yourself
2006-07-27 00:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by alpanai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having a friend go with you, that always helps. But if you are alone or don't want a friend, then I would suggest that you try to talk about something that you are passionate about. That helps me when I am shy around a girl.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-07-27 00:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself....breath and if you get nervous they will understand remember they might also have the same problem.
2006-07-27 00:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax breath and tak a drink!
2006-07-27 00:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by latina44572002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't act like that around ugly people? That's ur self-esteem, so work on ur confidence
2006-07-27 00:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by marindoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be confident in yrself look in there eyes or face when you talk to them. always have a great smile
2006-07-27 00:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself.
They're probobly nervous too.
2006-07-27 00:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by CeCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a drink... water is usually my choice. coffee also has worked well.
2006-07-27 00:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by knightashen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋