I'm curious to see what both guys and girls have to say about this.
2006-07-26 17:15:21 · 15 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not speaking of any guy or relationship in particular, this is just something I was thinking about.
2006-07-26 17:28:37 · update #1
yes - but not in time to salvage the relationship - taming only happens after the right girl has left him
2006-07-26 17:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Norman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can tame a promiscuous man is the man himself. He'll only change if he wants to do so. If he meets the woman that makes him want to settle down, she will most likely never know it because he won't let her see that side of him. He will simply change his behavior and that will be it. The woman who tries to change a promiscuous man is a woman who will soon be alone.
2006-07-26 17:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go into a relationship hoping you'll be the one to change him, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Unless he feels you're 'the one' worth changing for, he's not gonna change, and the more you try, the more he'll want to find someone else to be with.
How would you feel if the man you're with kept trying to change who you are?
2006-07-26 17:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need to stop thinking they can "change" a man or "tame" a man. The man is who he is, nobody or nothing can change it or fix it if he doesn't want to.
2006-07-26 17:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, especially if he reaches a certain age and grows up.
It sounds like a bit of a risk though!
People do change, I know that.
2006-07-26 17:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it takes more than the right woman. It take's the persons sincere decision to change.
2006-07-26 17:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would have to be pretty "good"... I think promiscuous guys are not only hard to trust, but, ya would have to wonder about diseases, as well.
2006-07-26 17:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say give the guy a chance, but make it clear to him that you will not put up with any indiscretions, and if he cheats on you even once, you are through
2006-07-26 17:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if he is completely satisfied by the relationship.
2006-07-26 17:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that you can, but the only person who can make someone change is themselves....
2006-07-26 17:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by jenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋