My ex and i were in a relationship for over a year. We had a rockly relationship. He had baby momma drama... he would go days without calling me so on and so forth. this year i got pregnant he abandoned me, he didn't want the baby. i miscarried in march and afterwards he wanted me to move in with him. i packed up and he ditched me. he stopped answering his phone. june 7 my birthday we hung out and the last thing he said to me was i will see you tomorrow. then he stopped answering my calls, he has not even tried to contact me. what happened
2006-07-26 16:30:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy doesn't seem to know what he wants. You don't need to be in a relationship that is unstable like this. He needs to do some growing up and you need to take time for yourself to heal from this trauma of miscarriage.
2006-07-26 16:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-20 00:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/l9RIB
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 19:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely that you miss your ex. Although you had a "rocky relationship" he probably did something to make you love him. He might have some abandonment issues. Or he just doesn't care enough about you, not like how you do for him. Let him go. Quit chasing after someone that is not worth your time! I know you love him, but after the fact that he impregnated you and didn't want the baby causing you stress that went along with the miscarriage. I say he's not worth it. Don't believe his lies. It seems like you've already been through enough. Go out and live it up! You seem like a caring, loving person. There are great guys out there that would enjoy being with you.
2006-07-26 16:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I take it that you are most likely very young so this probaly feels like your world is ending, take it from someone with years of this, it always feels like your heart is crushed and that you cant breathe, however you always wake up eventually. Now is the time to do something for yourself, first you may need to get some support emotionally, a miscarriage is a big thing to deal with, and then to have a partner that doesnt show any concern is worse, take sometime to focus on you and what you are really looking for in a relationship, then compare them to what you had with him, chances are you will discover for yourself how much he really wasnt worth it.... keep your head up sister and be strong!!
2006-07-26 16:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But nothing ...forget about the guy he doesnt value you, and you telling me he life you with child and abandoned you..do you really what a man like that? I dont think so...its time to move on and stop thinking about ever getting back with him. And he doesnt even pick up your calls...doesnt that tell you something? You only live once in this life, and you like everyone else has the right with happiness and i dont think this guy is ever going to give you that. Again, im sorry about you miscarriage and God bless.
take care..:)
2006-07-26 16:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by NiTa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-26 07:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As painful as this may sound, please do not feel badly on yourself to say that you made a mistake. You could not have done anything more here. In life we have many experiences, some good and some bad. Learn from them and move on, it will only make you that much stronger. You sounds like a woman with high morals and values, rebuild yourself.
2006-07-26 16:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The pregnancy and miscarriage made him wake up and realize that he's got a second chance so to speak to decide if he wants to stick around... but he's not really that into you so he's moving on now. You have to move on too - good luck.
2006-07-26 16:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even try to contact him and ignore him
don't fall for his jokes
he is just playing u
find a guy that would love and respect u NO MATER what happens who will hold on to u and not just leave if somethings got too hard
so move on there r good men out there trust me
~hope that helps ♥
2006-07-26 16:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by hotloverxo328 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋