A girl I met once before sees me again. Her and I get along, she flirts with me and subtly asks me out twice. Then asks to go to a concert with me. She gives me her email......but she wrote it weird or something because I can't get in touch with her. I hinted for the number, but she said "that's the best way to get in contact with me. Her friend, who I work with is how I met her the year before and she'd kind of look over at us talking and get really pissy over little mistakes I was making on the job that really weren't my fault and had nothing to do with her friend. I call this girl to politely ask for her friend's email and I told her my email clearly and she kept getting the name wrong! Like she kept seeming like she was acting like she didn't know how to spell the name in my email. So she asked for my number to pass her friend's email along to me. I did nothing wrong here. Why is it that this girl is acting like I'm not good enough for her friend? I'm taking this very personaly
2006-07-26 16:23:48 · 19 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So now this concert is Saturday and I told her I was going to try to find her a ticket so she could go with me....now I still haven't gotten in contact with her, because her address is undeliverable and her friend "is going to call me back with it". I'm not getting personal, but I deserve better. I'm 26 for crying out loud.
2006-07-26 16:25:09 · update #1
If she's telling me she's not interested why was she telling me to email her about when I could hang out with her?
2006-07-26 16:28:14 · update #2
Your officemate likes you and she doesn't want you to get closer with her friend that's why she keep delaying the phone number that you are asking for. She's just shy to admit it and maybe wants to give way for her friend who also likes you. Either way, she's not mature enough to handle her emotions because she's acting lame.
Next time, try to get the right information first hand. Don't rely on someone who knows this and that about the person. They just mixed up things and hassles you when everything should be going smooth.
Tell your officemate : "If you keep delaying the number of your friend, I will ask you to pay for the ticket I bought since it will be wasted anyhow." See what her reaction is lol. Goodluck!
2006-07-26 16:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The second girl is blocking for some reason. Either SHE really likes you and doesn't want you seeing her friend or she really doesn't think the two of you are a good match. She's not going to get back to you with the friend's e-mail.
It's also very possible the girl you were going to go out with wasn't sure about you in the first place and gave you a false e-mail address. In this case her friend is blocking on her behalf. ALWAYS give out your goods in return.
You will not go to the concert with her so either don't go at all or find another date.
2006-07-26 23:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by mom2babycolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be so difficult sometimes. I'm sorry about that for ya. Hopefully you will bump into her again so you can get together with her. If not the concert, then maybe somewhere where yall will have just as much fun. Don't dwell on it though because you seem to have a careing heart and her friend doesn't seem to. If this is meant to be then wait and see what happens.
2006-07-26 23:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by ddy'sgrl77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
26... what the hell are you doing? I wouldn't take it personally, I wouldn't take it at all.... forget the girl... and move on and find someone deserving of who you are. You went through all these sweet gestures to repeatedly get spit on... so you tell me, how do you think it would be if you were with her?? Not so hot, huh?..... Ok, I saw your update and my question to you is... Are you not reading these replies?? Are you hoping someone is going to come up with some sort of excuse??.... She is messing with your head ..... and what you added to your question makes me think she is a escaped mental patient!! Jeezus balls... this is going to fly one of two ways.. a.) she has a fetish for yo-yo's and is trying it on the male population. b.) she wants you to e-mail her so she can keep you hidden.. meaning she doesn't want to be in public with you.. people do actually do that.... and then when she is away from everyone she can act like she is into you. As I mentioned earlier... drop her and get yourself a real woman... this female is a french fry short of a happy meal!! You are what... 26?? What the hell is wrong with you!?! lol... It's not like she is the love of your life and yet you are so desperate to hang on and analize every detail of what she has said and what she has done. Don't take it personally... don't take it at all...... get a REAL woman!!
2006-07-26 23:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dis~Played 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime people flirt and even enjoy the flirt, but for some reason like maybe she is married or whatever the person comes to their senses and writes a bogus email or phone number. I think, this might have happened to you. Maybe your co-worker knows the friend is married. Anyway for what ever reason, if she had wanted you to contact her, she would have written plainly. Look for another more eligible gal who is really interested in you,
2006-07-26 23:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you gotta find another date! Either the gal you work with is actually the one that likes you or her friend has told her that she isn't interested and to help out by not giving out her info. Let is slide now, date other people, and if she is interested she'll seek you out since you've done all you can.
2006-07-26 23:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if it is this much work I would assume you are going strun along. Nobody is at their comupter consistently enough to be contacted by email. She should of given you the number. Like I said, too much work to just simply hang out.
2006-07-26 23:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you are getting the run around..let me know how it works out...hope for the best for you...you do deserve better...and there are more fish out in the sea so to speak..don't waste your time on trying to keep getting hold of you..the e-mail part...she didn't get it wrong..she is just not wanting to be with you...Sorry, but been there, just on the flip side,,
2006-07-26 23:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey: you sound like a nice guy: a guy who needs a better deal that this! This girl is `playing games' and they're NOT good ones! Get the hint: you don't need this!
So, don't `play' along with her: drop it like a hot potato~ and get on with your search for a decent and nice girl who'll treat you right!
2006-07-26 23:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried different versions of the girl's e-mail and it's not getting through, then forget it. If she was seriously interested, she would have given you her phone number in the first place.
As for the friend... tsk.. evil woman. She's playing you ! by pretending to be stupid.
2006-07-26 23:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋