2006-07-26 16:20:42 · 25 answers · asked by shareece510 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He's still my best-friend and I love him so much. Its only his middle name and I really dislike the new baby's dad.. were not together
2006-07-26 16:30:51 · update #1
in your situation i say go for it name the baby whatever makes u happy
2006-07-26 17:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by unhappyinin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. I am curious to get some mor einfo on what you are thinking exactly. Are you referring to last name only? Or both first and last. LAst would be acceptable if he was an OK guy. If he bailed on you, than defenitely not. I wouldn;t give him the privelidge.
First name is more complex. If your Ex was good to you and you still love him, but he doesn;t want you, than that may be percieved as a bit frieky or wierd.
If the guy was an ***, I would seriously reconsider, for your own sake. Naming your child after him will only invite problems.
If he passed away or something, than I would say go fo it
2006-07-26 23:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by billyandgaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its one thing to use a name you like - its another to name
someone after a previous lover.
You have to decide why you want to use the name - if it
is to remind you of your ex-lover, then of course it is bad
for your current relationship.
If you would name the kid that even if you had never loved
a person with that name, then why not?
Of course, you're going to have to explain it to your current
love - which may be difficult enough to make it not worth it.
If there is no current love, then you can certainly name him
after your ex - even to honor him.
People break up for many reasons and not all relationships
end badly.
2006-07-26 23:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the father of your son has a problem with that, then yes, it is wrong. Very wrong. If you're trying to hang on to the ex by doing that, that isn't a good thing either.
2006-07-26 23:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very much so, how would you feel if your husband named your daughter after one of his ex's? Particularly one that he thought gave the best bjs or had a really deep emotional connection with?
2006-07-26 23:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong unless he is the baby's father. But then can you imagine a new man in your life using the name. YOu don['t want your new man to be upset about your son's name.
so I would say NO
2006-07-26 23:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I would love to name my baby after this guy I dated but I know it would be wrong. So dont do it!
2006-07-26 23:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by comingofage03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, it would always be a constant reminder of a bad time in your life. You may be friends with him now but what happens if things change? Think long and hard about it.
2006-07-26 23:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....
1. Do you have a new man? Don't do it.
2. Is it your ex's son? If so, see question 1.
3. Would it be a painful reminder? If so, see question 1.
2006-07-26 23:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...what do you think?...because I do think it's very wrong...unless you are not married to somebody else. In that case...who really cares? You must still love your ex...so go ahead.
2006-07-26 23:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋