For example I was hanging out with 2 different guys (they used to be friends) sorta like dating them, and I ended up sleeping with both of them. And get this, they both called me a sl*t when they found out! But I don't think they have the right to call me that because I wasn't "officially" bf/gf with either of them. So does that honestly constitute me as being a sl*t?
2006-07-26 16:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To kinda make matters worse...I still like one of the guys. Should I try to get him back? And should I make it clear to him that I was under the impression that if we weren't bf/gf then I could do whatever I wanted, as in see other guys?
2006-07-26 18:42:41 · update #1
Um that is why you should not sleep around. But I think its hypocrite of them to sleep around also and call you such horrible name.
2006-07-26 16:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell yes! Sleeping with someone is a bigger deal than just going out with them. You slept with two guys you weren't dating, apparently around the same period of time. So that makes you a sl-t. It's no double standard, as far as I'm concerned, because I don't approve of that behavior in guys either. So now you know . . . .
And anyone has the right to call you whatever they please, no matter if it's true (as it is in this case) or not. So you know what not to do in the future to avoid truthfully falling in that category, so just move on. Good luck!
2006-07-26 23:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A slut is someone who sleeps around. Period. You better start working really hard to fix your reputation because, if not ,it's going to follow you through school. While I don't think it's right to call you names like that, you shouldn't be having sex with boys like that either. Have some respect for yourself and your body. Hope your protecting yourself.
2006-07-26 23:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were in their situation, wouldn't you do the same too? the only reason why they called you a slut is because you cheated on their feelings. you lead them on but yet you have no plans of committing to one of them. its the same reason you have if someone does this to you also. you see, you have to learn to respect yourself before you can expect someone else to respect you. by sleeping with both of them, it shows that you dont have even one bit of respect for yourself at all. i mean, why did you even do it? whats your reason for doing that? you see...you cant even find a good reason for doing that.
and yes..they have all the right to be calling you that because you really are because of what you've done.
you know what, God created you for a very special purpose. HE lent you that body and HE expects you to be a good steward...and not to exploit it or abuse it just like you did. HE gave you that body for you to take care of it...and what have you done?
you must learn to wait for the RIGHT GUY that God will give you and then you can have sex all you want and who cares? you have all your life to do that .. if you want. but the thing is..you have to wait. why do you want to have sex with all the guys you're with?---thats really immature and irresponsible of you.
just wait for the right one...and wait to have sex again till you get married. then you'll have all the pure pleasure you can ever have. because TRUE LOVE WAITS...
2006-07-26 23:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just cuz there mad that both of them had u, so ur not new news nemore, and If u were with one of them then u wouldnt have slept with both of em, so being that ur not either of there g/fs looks bad, cuz u shouldnt be havin sex until ur married, or atleast u should be sleepin with a b/f! Or not havin sex!
2006-07-26 23:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by bettyboop344 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-07-26 23:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorta kinda
2006-07-26 23:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋