my x and i have been keeping in touch since 1999 and he swears that does not love me(he knows i love him) but he just told me that he feels comfortalbe around me and the reason that we continue to do what we do(sexualy) is because he feels comfortable with me he says that i am a good listener, how do i test him to find out if he loves me or if i am just what he says and it will never be anything more than that.
2006-07-26 15:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by semret A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you value what you have dont try to get more....
you know what to do if its worth the risk
but you havent so it probably isnt worth the chance of losing the sex.
2006-07-26 15:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by david waterstreet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never be at the position you are now, don't be there just to be a listener and for sex. 7 years have passed and no man in this world keep his love in secret for such a long time. Make it stop if you want to be loved.
2006-07-26 23:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by ngaungu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't "test" people. If you want to know, ask him. If you don't believe him than you guys have a problem.
If he loves you you'll know it. He'll at LEAST show it by the way he treats you. Or he'll say it. "I Love You" is how I say it. Tell him how you feel. Do you love him? Have you told him?
No one likes being tested.
2006-07-26 23:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, grow up and get on with your life. If I broke up with a girl and could date whoever I wanted and bang her as well, I would too!!!
What is it with low self esteem women allowing us guys to use you like spitoons, heck, not even lie and say that we love you, tell you to your face that we don't love you, and yet you keep pineing like lovestruck mooncalves?!!!
Whatever...I prefer a woman with self esteem, and (apparantly) so does your ex.
2006-07-26 23:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't test him if I was you. Sounds like entrapment, and it could end VERY ugly. I should know, I've seen it happen more times than I want to count. Don't say I didn't warn you.
2006-07-26 23:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with him and you can tell. You shouldnt be having sex with him if he cant even say he loves you. He's using you. Its so obvious.
2006-07-26 22:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the one hand you love him. On the other you feel he is a liar? You got issues, girl.!
2006-07-26 23:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start going out with another man and see how he reacts.
2006-07-26 23:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey stop having sex and that will tell you by how he treats you. some people of both sexes only want sex and if they can have a permanent partner it is more convenient
2006-07-26 23:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Testing is a good thing, but be careful you do not overdo it and push him away.
2006-07-26 22:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋