I'm a shy, but very nice normal guy (about 5'9") in my 20s and I've always found tall, attractive (blue-eyed) blondes with a great personality and bigger feet than me who likes sports very sexy...since I have blue eyes and like sports....However, I don't know how to find someone who fits my type since I work late all the time (including weekends) and if I did I wouldn't know how to approach her without seeming weird...would you be able to help me out????
P.S. I will report those who have smart a$$ comments or guys that have remarks in a queer fashion...seriously.
2006-07-26 15:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by lavatts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you sound awfully cute! I think that you should wait. You'll find someone. If you work late no biggie! Find a girl who works late too! Then both of you can go chilling in daytime and hang out until work. I know it may seem like your the only one who works that late, btu trust me some girl is thinking that same thing too. So, good luck!
2006-07-26 15:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by TheHillsLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one it sounds like you are look for the particulars and most of the time when you look for the particulars, you are also looking for a needle in a haystack.People that look for the particulars may be hunting for a long time. Open yourself to any possibility. Don't keep a closed mind and focus on that certain look or certain personality. If a woman treats you right, respects you, she's fun to be with and she meets your standards, makes you happy and all of that good stuff, then that's a start.
Now, if you see a woman you are attracted to. Start with a casual conversation. Generally, you tell her hi and ask how she's doing and good stuff like that. Don't be so self concious, though it's hard when you are nervous and you want to impress someone.
Hang in there.
I hope that this helps. :)
2006-07-26 16:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you like sports, maybe a public tennis court, gym thats open late (there are some open 24 hours at lease where I live),bike trails, just to name a few. As far as approaching her, just something simple, like "I saw you play tennis, nice game", or "how long have you been going to this gym and do they offer some pretty good advice? ANyway those are just a couple that hopefully might help, you sound like a nice guy.
2006-07-26 16:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by ginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um Id say find a girl that works out at the same gym as u, and just ask her if u guys wanna work out together sumtime, and maybe shoot sum hoops or whatever sports u like, and see if u can read her vibe its easy to tell if sum1s interested or not, and then maybe just be like well what r u doin later? We should exchange numbers!
2006-07-26 15:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop344 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are narrowing your search too much. The color of eyes, hair, body length......you're chances of finding this with a great personality are very slim.
Look for what is inside the heart in a girl.
Instead of being on the internet tonight, you could be volunteering your services somewhere......there, you will find nice girls who are pretty, too. Good luck.
2006-07-26 15:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by mare b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why are you so hung up on looks?
go join a sportsclub a team sport that is coed. Churches have lots of singles groups that are fun too. Don't seem to desperate that totally turns women off.
2006-07-26 15:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by GutsiePerson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how late do you work if its not to late then you could go to a bar or a dance club, or mabey even a sports game or something on one of your days off! Good luck
2006-07-26 15:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u take some time off if u dont then u should just take a break from work. and when u meet a girl u like just talk to her like ur talking to ur guy friends or u girl friends start out as friends and then see where it takes u. dont be shy just be urself in front of her.
2006-07-26 16:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could go to a coffee shop or library or bar (sports plays on tv their) on a regular basis and maybe get to know girls that go their often or run into one that is your type knock books out of hand order a drink or spill it or something like that to first get their attention.
2006-07-26 16:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! you're almost describing me! Too bad I'm married...
I would try websites like myspace.com, cupid.com, stuff like that.
I hope you find your princess. you sound very nice.
2006-07-26 15:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋