I really need to know!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-26 15:51:47 · 15 answers · asked by KC N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
say Im sorry give her a big hug n tell her u love her.after that its just one day at a time.she's ur mom she will always love u.good luck
2006-07-26 15:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe say "Mom, I haven't even been able to come up with the right words to tell you how sorry I am that I have been disrespectful to you. I've been (insert reason you were disrespectful here, like "under a lot of stress lately" or "going through a hard time lately.") I hope that you can please forgive me. I love you and never meant to hurt you."
2006-07-26 15:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter (not an email) it always worked with my mom (I'm in my 30's now, so she obviously let me live despite all the stupid crap I did as a teen)
A letter tells her that you took time to organize your thoughts. She cannot argue back with a letter. Be sure and use statements that say "I feel....." rather than accusing her like "you do ....." Make it about why you have been disrepectful. Be humble and tell her how much she means to you. As a mother I can tell you that no one, no one, no one, thanks a mother! Its a hard job with lousy pay and no time off. Let her now how much she means!
Trust me on the letter! Email does not fly, don't do it. Although you could type the letter and print it out. Put it in an envelope and address it to her. Put it where she will find it.
You will thank me! Good luck with your mother. I am really proud of you for recognizing that you have been disrepectful!
2006-07-26 15:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by bradymccormick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do if it was me, is go to her and tell her what you just told us. Have flowers and a card in hand when you do this. And by all means let her know that you mean it. Then give her a big hug, and tell her that you love her very much. She is your mother and the only mother that you will ever have.
If you are old enough, (don't know as you didn't say how old you was) take her out to eat or something. And then help her out as much as you can from now on.
2006-07-26 16:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happns to me once when I was about 23 year-old. And I was driving and had a big quarrel with my mom and even scolded her *F.... * And I nearly wanted to kill both of us together at that moment. After I have cooled down, I know I was in the wrong for using the word. I actually bought a sorry card with some 'sorry' words written in it and a flower, left it at her dressing table where she can see easily. She got touched actually and forgiven me....
Try this if you could not put sorry words in your mouth which I know it is hard.... It is so much easier to express in this way. Hopefully this could help you...
2006-07-26 15:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by catzpaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to her and say "mom, i am sorry about earlier when i disrespected you, can you forgive me?" and wait for the hugs and tears. That is the hard part, me and my 14 year old have the most awful fight yesterday and she apologised first, we both just hugged each other and cried. It's an awkward moment, but it will bring you closer together. she will respect you for taking action on what you did. that's a promise.
good luck sweetie!
2006-07-26 15:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tracey E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager I was very disrespectful to my mom and all I did was tell her that I needed to talk and then I apologized as a starter and I ask her to forgive me and instead of talking down to me to treat me how she wanted to be treated even though I was her daughter and now we have a better relationship but still every now and then we fall out and it takes a few days before one of us decides to call also just ask GOD to give you a better understanding of parents
2006-07-26 16:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Moody1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this "Mom, I'm sorry for what I did and I promise I'll never do it again. Please mom. Believe me." All I have to do is say sorry and she'll believe me because I say the truth 90% of the time. However, I haven't needed to apologize to her for the past 3 years... Good Luck! And say the truth...
2006-07-26 15:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by piercing integrity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just did.
Tell her:
"I'm sorry, I have been very disrespectful to you. I would like to start over."
Now, you just need to remember it, go downstairs and say it.
2006-07-26 15:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. That's how you start. Mom im sorry the rest will follow and good luck.
2006-07-26 15:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by SWEETJUNE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋