I'm still in love with my ex-girlfriend and she knows it. Lately she's been calling, stopping by at odd hours etc. We spend a little time together talk for hours on the phone, but then when I try to get close she pushes away.
I still love her deeply - I'd marry her tommorow if she would say yes.
We've been apart for a year. We made plans to go out on Sunday. She was interested in another guy that rejected her (she seemed hurt by it).
Tonite she calls and says, she can't make it Sunday and needs to spend time with women not men.
The last 3 months we have talked, seen eachother, went out, even fooled around a little, but she seems to keep saying 'come here' and then pushes me away.
Which one of us is crazy?
2006-07-26 15:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both.
The girl is just using you. Keeping her company when she has no one around. This is so nasty.
You on the other hand is allowing it. Yes, we do crazy things when we're in love but it doesn't mean you have to lose your self respect. She has hurt you. Are you going to allow her to step on your whole being too?
2006-07-26 15:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. She's not into you as much as you are into her. The fact that she keeps popping by and talking to you for hours on end means that she trusts and likes you as a person, maybe as a close intimate friend.
Maybe she has some wild oats to sow and things to do before committing herself to a serious steady relationship. If she cares for you she should be able to tell you what you can expect from the relationship. Also, it is my personal opinion that it is never a great idea to be at the beck and call of anybody. There's something very appealing about people that have their own life and aren't just waiting around the wings at our disposal, yet are there for us when it really matters. Pull back and let her seek you out. If she doesn't, at least you'll know where you stand.
2006-07-26 16:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Celeste A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are, for putting up with her treating you like this. She gets all the benefits of having a boyfriend who adores her without having to do anything in return. This is a totally one-sided relationship and she is using you. Find a girl who appreciates your loving heart and move on. B
2006-07-26 15:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is, ignore her for awhile, shes too immature to make up her mind, and obviously depending on her friends for any relationship advice. Ignore her, and if she keeps calling or coming around at odd hours tell her like you told us.. why do you and me get close and then you push away again? Tell her your exact feelings for her like you told us, but try to leave out the marriage part, because she might get scared and leave.
2006-07-26 15:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex girlfriend is just playing with your feelings. sometimes women like men to be totally be into them but it does not mean they are also interested with the guy. She needs assurance that she is still attrative and your giving her that. You deserve better. Go out and look for someone who will give you what you deserve.
2006-07-26 15:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're completly asking the wrong question.
Push her a away a little and see what happens.
Be the next one to cancel a date. Try not to call her, be patient and wait for her to call you.
You need to act like you are ok with out her. Always be happy with your life, and she will be happy with it too.
2006-07-26 15:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her. I had an ex-boyfriend like this, and I found that he was there for me the most when he didn't have anyone else. Don't allow yourself to be taken in, it isn't fair to you. Find a new love, move on, and you will feel free
2006-07-26 15:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by chelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you when she needs someone, dont wear your heart on your Sleeve. Get over her or she will continue to hurt you. There are plenty nice women out there, go out and meet some.
2006-07-26 15:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both are.
Forget about her. She's using you until someone else catches her interest or attention, then you are history until the next time it happens.
2006-07-26 15:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by MST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋