When does loving your children become to much love?

Question

When all your think of are the little fingers that touch every thing, but also hug you?
when you have to sleep with the child's faverit blanket when he oe she is on a sleep over?
when you have to hug and kiss the child every hour or your heart will feel weak?

when is loving your child, too much?

I dont have kids !!!! I am not asking this on my behalf!!!

you people are iggnorant !! (some of you)!!

Answer 1

Not to sound ignorant, but I guess it would be depending on the age of the child. Love from a mother to a child should be unconditional love, bonding, and nurturing. Ofcourse it isn't what the parent does it is how the child sees it.
Just imagine your child coming home from the sleep over and seeing mom laying in the bed with his/her blanket. I know my children would say.........Mom you do love me and missed me too.
So unless your love for you child is to benifit yourself, there is No "too much love" for your child

Answer 2

There will never be a point in your life when you could possibly love your child too much.
There's a big difference in spoiling though.
But, as far as what you said, how can you ever tire of that?
It's the best time of your life. Soak it up all you can.
Unfortunately the day will come when the child will say " not in front of my friends Mom "
If it's any consolation to you, I still have the baby blanket from the hospital, first tooth brush, first lock of hair, among other "Firsts".
When is loving your child too much ? The Twelfth of Never!
There is nothing stronger than the love of a Mother, and you sound like the kind this world needs more of. KUDOS TO YOU !!

Answer 3

Well I think there is an obsession vs. love factor going on here. Is there such thing as loving your child too much; I don't think there is, after all there is no other relationship on earth that allows for such an unconditional bond, not even marriage. So I think you can go a lifetime loving your children and action fails in comparison to how much love a parent does have for their own children.
Obsession is an unconscious behavior some parents are trapped into after having their children. When you are no longer living your life independently of your child, I would say you are obsessed. You are living your life for your child rather than yourself- this is not good, as your child will later resent you for this behavior- Some instances of this that come to mind are those parents who are relentless in criticizing mates your son/daughter bring home one day- and the meddling mother-in-law. I would keep these emotions in check.

Answer 4

There's no such thing as loving your child too much. What can be a bad thing is not giving your child boundaries and discipline. Discipline is not spanking....it's not allowing unacceptable behavior. The sooner you start the better and believe it or not all children want boundaries because being allowed to to whatever they want can be exhausting and scary for them and for you. You'll do fine.

Answer 5

i ought to experience unhappy. i must be heart damaged because i understand I raised them extra ideal than that. i must be indignant at their possibilities to be so violent and hateful. And definite i ought to help them having to take finished legal responsibility for his or her moves. yet at the same time i'm commanded to forgive and to love (by God). Forgiveness and love are possibilities, no longer thoughts. it may take time to forgive my toddler for such unspeakable acts, yet i will continuously continuously continuously love them. they're nevertheless my toddler, although if i do not comprehend the guy they have change into. If God can and could love me and forgive me for all my failures (God sees all sin a similar, there is not any undesirable, worse or worst even as it includes sin) then i will and could do a similar for everybody else, pretty my toddler. i have under no circumstances killed, raped, and so on., yet i have easily tousled my honest share and that i understand my sin is purely as undesirable as contained in the eyes of God. it is why i will't say i'm any extra ideal than them and on account that of this i will't say i ought to under no circumstances forgive everybody for his or her wrongs.

Answer 6

A mother always her loves her children, no matter where they are, what they are doing, or how old they are. They are from her. She nurtured them and raised them. She bandaged their wounds, cleaned up their messes, fed them and clothed them. There is never enough love for a mother to give to her children. Too much is, for a mother, never enough.

Answer 7

When your love for your child is mistaken for a way for them to control you.

Answer 8

It's never too much...

but it will be tested the moment they find the poop in their diaper and decide to paint...LOL

Answer 9

i dont think you can ever love your child too much,you will raise a cofident adult if your child knows he is loved .

Answer 10

I don't think you can love your child too much because I love mine alot too. BUT, if you have a son, please don't turn him into a momma's boy....it's not attractive when he grows older.