How do I stop feeling the need to have sex???
I want to have sex but want to save it
How do I become asexual???
2006-07-26 15:38:09 · 24 answers · asked by smart 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you do not use your prostate gland for the purpose it was designed for (and often) you will be begging for problems later in life. Your silly religious beliefs might just kill you, or at least make you get up 10 times a night to pee.
2006-07-26 15:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you wish we could all just be like Paul? Endorphins! Your body wants them. Chocolate releases similar endorphins as sex, so eat some. You might also try yoga, which can help you focus and release tension. Running or another form of aerobic exercise could also help. We all have a sex drive, and it's stronger in some than others. Like all 'sinful desires' though, it's an impulse, and is controllable. It's extremely uncomfortable to have an overactive sex drive and not be able to have sex, but it's manageable. Chances are your drive is hormone related; you may notice that it get's stronger around the same time each month, similar to pms. Just focus on other things and get your mind off of it. If you stop and remember that you don't really want to have sex and there are chemicals in your brain programmed to help you further the species via reproduction, you'll feel better. Just remind yourself that it's all in your head. Don't worry honey, you'll get through this!
2006-07-26 15:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by Nuwanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asexual means having NO sex drive at all. In order to be asexual, you would need to have your gonads (testicles/ovaries) removed. I'm sure you don't want that.
I guess you could slow your sex drive by staying away from sexually charged themes, like dance clubs and porn. And a lot of cable TV.
If you're not exposed to it as much, you'll stop thinking about it. You won't want it if you don't know what you're missing.
2006-07-26 15:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saved?
This is the most important question to ask of you. If you are not, you need to get saved first of all.
The sex drive is normal but unsaved persons most likely can not contain. They will express this urge in an manner which is not as God desires. The devil will make them do so, from lusting after to actual lusting and going out and shacking up so to speak.
ONLY
a small minority of persons will be able to keep it under control, but they will have some other sin which will be in control of them such as drinking, gambling, or being a workaholic to the neglect of other things such going to church.
2006-07-26 15:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by 1saintofGod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you have mentally become obsessed ( probably subconsciously) is the reason you can't stop wanting to have sex so bad, It really is a matter of mind over matter. Keep yourself busy doing things that have absolutely have nothing to do with sex or related to sexual behaviors. You have put yourself into a rut, now pull yourself out.
2006-07-26 15:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Heather W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off know that sex is a desire not a NEED no one truly NEEDS to have sex, They simply want to have sex. Its a pleasure thing, the feeling of oneness with another. If you cannot avoid this desire get married to someone you like allot. If you can avoid it well then do not worry about it. If you want to totally avoid sex immerse yourself within the scriptures and contemplate the words of Christ.
2006-07-26 15:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Brother John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex drive is natural and healthy. The actions people take to appease that urge are often destructive and come with serious consequences. Take cold showers, keep yourself busy with other activities, and don't put yourself in situations where you'd be tempted. Discipline weighs ounces, regret weighs tons. Imagine having an expensive crying pooping baby before you are ready--that should be a turn-off :)
2006-07-26 15:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by alcachofita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't inflate the importance of sex in your mind. You can make it seem more than it is, just by obsessing on it. Avoid the mass media, because it is saturated with sexuality, giving the impression that it is normal to be fixated on sex all the time. There's a whole lot more to life.
2006-07-26 15:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Skeptimystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you walk in the Spirit, you don't fulfill the Lusts of the flesh.
When you are close to God through a living relationship with Jesus, you have no desire to do things which God warned us about in His Word!
2006-07-27 05:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jack off
wack it
spank it
choke the chicken
Spank the monkey
Have fun with yourself
2006-07-26 15:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Moshell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋