girls i cant get a boyfriend what im a doing wrong i need to know i am beautiful
2006-07-26 15:35:52 · 26 answers · asked by total_babe_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
2006-07-26 15:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a fact that, every night, someone thinks of you before you go to sleep, crazy as it may sound. there are probably people crushing on you but arent gutsy enough to ask you out. there are some shy guys in this world! if you like someone, do exactly what i did ... the turnout couldnt have been better! tell him. seriously. muster up that female strength you have and tell him! say that you just wanted to know if he felt the same way and if not thats totally fine, and could you be friends? if he likes you, good for you! if not, youre gonna get a bf at some point. everyone does. keep your chin up and keep a stiff upper lip! good luck
2006-07-26 22:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how to help you, but you probably can't get a good guy by just being beautiful. You should be beautiful on the inside, too. You should be a nice person.
2006-07-26 22:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are not just based on physical beauty. You can attract a boy and get a few dates based on how cute you are, but to get a real boyfriend you need to find a guy who has similar interests, likes and dislikes, etc.
2006-07-26 22:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get a boyfriend just so it can be a an ego booster for you. Be independent and then when you find one be happy but don't get one just to feel beatiful, you shouldn't need as guy to make you feel beatiful. You should realize your own inner beatiful and be ok with it. You let others know how beaitful you are by feeling beatiful. Good luck!
2006-07-26 22:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I am a guy. But are you picky? If not, then if you find someone attractive, then go after him. Don't be shy. What's the worse that can happen? He rejects you. Then get over it and find somebody else you find attractive. Women are the ones who pick and chose who they want. Not guys. Guys have to work to get girls. Women can date whoever they want.
2006-07-26 22:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by NJboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by fixing yourself. Know that you are beautiful, be happy, love yourself. Treat others the way you wanna be treated, and love will come your way. You can also look up some dating tips.
2006-07-26 22:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you are beautiful, YOU ARE. Be more positive thinking and natural, guys will just come to you like ants to honey.
Pick and choose slowly and hopefully that leads to something more meaningful. DON'T RUSH. THink yourself that you are beautiful in your inner soul and you will have peace. Good luck.
2006-07-26 22:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing you personally that's hard to answer. But for one thing don't try so hard. Guys can spot desperation from a mile away and it's not attractive. Just chill and have fun and let it happen when it's meant to.
2006-07-26 22:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of good looks aren't everything.
I'd say guys probably sense you lack of self-confidence and so if they are a gentlemen they probably don't want to date you. Also contrary to hollywood guys actually do like brains and feelings.
My advice: be yourself, study hard, be active, and work on developing a better self-confidence...good luck
Love often hits us when we least expect it and definantly when we aren't looking for it.
2006-07-26 22:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by University Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋