hello I have a question for girls only if you are dateing someone who is really honest and careing does it matter if he has not much experence in intamsy some people I know said no and some feel yes it matters please let me know thanks
2006-07-26 15:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by honesteyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would NEVER pass up a guy who doesn't have alot of experience in intimacy. In fact, it would make me MORE interested in them. I think it is a very attractive quality, and it means that the guy doesn't just get intimate with anyone, that he saves it for someone special. PLEASE don't feel that this is a bad quality, because it is WONDERFUL! Trust God to bless you for waiting for the right one. You're doing great, just be yourself, and relax, and God will send the right one your way when it is time. My best goes out to you, take care.
2006-07-26 15:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't matter at all. Why should it? The best part of love is learning how to do it like the first time. An honest guy doesn't need to say that he has no practice. Just do what comes naturally and take it slow. Practice talking and getting to know her...and learn to kiss in such a way that she will know what you are thinking before you even say it...and if she is a particularly good kisser, ask for a lesson on how to make her happiest. A girl wants a guy to care...that is what she wants most...A guy that takes the smallest moment and makes it as beautiful as the first time. It is the time that you take that makes the biggest difference.
Goodluck loving.
2006-07-26 22:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely much rather a guy be honest and caring then be experienced with intimacy. I've chosen honest and caring guys over experienced ones before and it has been the best experience. Sex and intimacy enhances a relationship, it doesn't build one all in its own. I would go for honesty and caring any day over intimately experienced if those were my choices. Intimacy you can learn, but it takes a lot to change a person to be sweet, honest and caring. That's just someone's personality.
2006-07-27 12:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by shandra587 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, it's spelt intamicy. Good, now that that's cleared...... Some girls it does matter, but those are only th girls who aren't lookin' for a serious relationship. If you want a relationship that's going to ast a long time, mayb forever u wanna find sum1 that is the right character. In my opinion, if their not that exspierienced in the intamicy department..... then overlook it, especially if you really like them.
2006-07-26 22:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by horse_lover1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said females only.
But as far as I see it if we are dating someone that we really care about and would do anything for then it shouldnt really matter whether we are good in that department or not.
Because from experience we males learn in that way fairly quickly.
cheers.
2006-07-26 22:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather the guy be nice and caring and have no experience in intimacy then for the guy to be mean and a jerk and have all the experience in the world.
2006-07-26 22:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell intimacy first.
2006-07-26 22:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to me it does not matter about intamasy if he cares thats cool
2006-07-26 23:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like him to have experience, but generally good personality is more important.
2006-07-26 22:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter to me
2006-07-26 22:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by dark author 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋