this guy is a friend of a friend of friend and we went out only once. and I did everything wrong, what can I do to change this?
2006-07-26 15:30:22 · 12 answers · asked by Tathi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think you're inlove at all..get it over with because that's just infatuation. you cannot fall in love with a person that you havent fully met--personality and all. you've only went out once so the characteristic that made you like him is basically only the superficial side of him. you dont know who he really is, you dont know his personality and everything about him. and if you dont know this..you cant be in love. because LOVE is about knowing and seeing someone at their best and at their WORST...LOVE is a PROCESS...not just a one-time feeling. LOVE involves a decision, and a commitment. so just let go of this guy WHO DOESNT EVEN KNOW YOU EXIST and think about those who actually know that you do. and better yet..WAIT for the RIGHT MAN for you..God gives it if you ask. trust me..HE really does.
2006-07-26 15:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whatever you did wrong, only did differently this time. Do everything you can think of, to make him notice you and to make him realize, you exist. If you have a little tatoo near your right hip, pull your top up and show it to him, whenver you're in front of him. Keep trying to socialize with him.
2006-07-26 15:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a group date and invite him, if you're not up to asking hin out on a date with just the 2 of you.If the chemistry is there you'll know it. Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-26 15:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mz. Burk3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a card. Guys like getting cards believe it or not. Or at least I do. It will make him think you want another try at being "together"
2006-07-26 15:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember what you did wrong. Work on them and in someway, let him know you would like to continue dating him. If he is interested he will take you up on your offers. And from now on don't think you are in love, Know it.
2006-07-26 15:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, invite him, ask for his help around the house. Be bold, life is short. Be persistence and tell him your true feelings, lady!
2006-07-26 15:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by SNOWMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to the guy and invite him on another date.
2006-07-26 15:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let us embrace, and from this very moment vow an eternal misery together.
2006-07-26 15:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like lots of guys that have no idea i exist except for one...not good.
2006-07-26 15:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here what you do act on him. keep leading him on untill you think you got him then ask him out.
2006-07-26 15:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by rbb_robs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋