In the beginning of your relationship and you find out that your girlfriend didn't tell the truth about something and you find out months later,is that a reason to be mad,or possible break up with her.
2006-07-26 15:26:51 · 17 answers · asked by MR. REMY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on WHAT the lie was.... can you be more specific?
If the truth was something that makes her look bad, she may have just lied about it so she looks good to you...
Maybe she likes you a lot?
Ask her why she lied...
If it was self-serving, and shows that she just doens't care, then yes, break up with her...
But if it was something that was too personal to be honest about and she just had to keep it from you... she deserves another chance...
Let her know that lies are a NO NO in the future....
2006-07-26 15:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends on how big it is. If its something thats not a big deal and wont affect the relationship then hey just forget about it but if its somethign that can possibly be a turnoff for you or can change that way you feel about her then you should definately give it some thought but only you can know what u need to do. Follow your heart.
~Rickeisha
2006-07-26 15:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rickeisha AKA Keisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to tell you the truth it depends on what she lied about. If its something as petty as a hobby or how many trips she's been on then its shouldn't be a problem because that means she was just trying to impress you. But if its something BIG like sge was seeing someone at the time or that she never talks to her ex-boyfriend then give her the boot. It really just depends on what the thing is.
2006-07-26 15:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by lilalovespink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'You will first ask her why she hide that thing to you.Maybe she has a big reason why she lied' there's a lot's of reason in this world dudes!maybe the 1 reason was she afraid of telling the truth to lose you' maybe she take time or more time to open up to you' but the bad thing before she open up to you what's all about the situation she encountered, you already find out the things that she hide to you from other people and not from her' dudes,you think hundreds times first before you decide' maybe you will regret if you will end your relation to her' if you truly love her try to listen her side and understand her situation. Wish you all the best in this world could offer. . . . .!
2006-07-26 15:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much you love her. If you really love her nothing in this World will matter to you long as you have your woman. She perhaps never told you in the beginning because she may have been scared of losing you or she may have been ashamed of something or worse she may have been completely traumatised by the incident! So you should be mature enough to understand and decide which is important, to be mad and breakup or to forgive and make up? Its your choice.
2006-07-26 15:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by junoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question............honesty is key to a relationship. You have every right to be hurt, not necessarily angry. It also depends what she lied to you about. Was she trying to not hurt your feelings? Was the lie big enough of a deal , to be a deal breaker ? How far along is your relationship ? You need to talk with her. Not to confront her about the lie, but to talk in a non-threatening way about how what she said affected you, and your feelings towards her. Good luck.
2006-07-26 15:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by parkmaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 08:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not nessarily. Depends on what she lied about. In my opinion.. you should confront her about the lie. Give her a chance to explain if you want an explaination. Yes I would be upset (but it would depend on what its about). I would definately let her know that I knew. Good luck
2006-07-26 15:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending what was the situation and how sorry she truly is. If it was a simple little lie and it was the past and she is sorry, let it go and forgive her. Also, don't hold it against her cause that is worse than not being forgiven.
2006-07-26 15:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance to explain her self if she cheated then brake up with her. for give and for get yall have lasted this long. try t for give and tell her to be more honest with you. IF your commeted give her a chance to be aswell.
2006-07-26 15:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Heather B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋