it was out of the blue here one day gone the next with no consideration about how i feel and all the things ive done. how do u cope with somethin like this all comments appreciated cuz what doesnt kill you make s you stronger
2006-07-26 15:23:46 · 16 answers · asked by coldestfire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest moving on. You can't change anyone and if she went back with a crappy ex then she must be crazy in love with him. Try not to judge it since you can't change it. Crazy in love doesn't mean smart.
My main point is that if she left you....for anyone else....she doesn't love you enough to be happy. And eventually she would leave again if you did get her back. Love is like that. She will figure out the situation again and maybe leave him again...but that isn't your problem.
So move on...despite how much it hurts. And remember you are a great guy. It is so hard to find a man that managed to really love a woman with kids already. You are the catch and unfortunately she isn't smart enough to see that.
Move on.
2006-07-26 15:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should defenitly do nothing, forget about it as quick as you can and move on. If she really cared about you she wouldn't have done it. It's as simple as that. Don't waste your time, if you really cared about her, then it's her lose. Force your self not to think about it. It's hard, but worth it. I feel I know alot about being in situations similiar to that one. I was left pregnant twice, two different men. They all suck. First boy friend I ever had beat the crap out of me, In front of his friends. I Stayed with him for four years. You just gotta learn self control. that is the answer.
2006-07-26 15:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just let her go forget her she is most likely used to be treated bad and will put up with it a long time maybe for ever, I had a mother in law that was married three times and they were all mean and drunk it's like all she knew or something
2006-07-26 15:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by Paula A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might feel she owes it to the kids to try to make it work with their dad. It's hard on you, especially because she didn't even seem to care about what it would do to you. This says a lot about her character. Don't wait around for her to bounce back to you when it doesn't work out for her again. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and who will respect your feelings. Give yourself a little time to mourn what might have been, then move on.
2006-07-26 15:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day, this guy is still the father of her kids, and i'm pretty sure she'll do anything to keep the family united.
U however, should move on as well!
2006-07-26 15:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she wants to be treated like a crap so there's nothing you can do.
I know it hurts but the only thing to do is forget her. She doesn't love herself enough, so I think she may not give you the love that you deserve.
Move on.
2006-07-26 15:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to do. He may treat her like crap but she made
her decision. Her loss,and she may regret her decision later,but
it's not your problem. Move on to someone smarter.
2006-07-26 15:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THE BEST THING TO DO IS LET IT GO AND IF THERE IS A PROBLEM HELP HER BUT SHE WILL MAYBE COME BACK TO YA!!!
SINCERELY,
ANOMYNOUS RICAN
2006-07-26 15:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by ANOMYNOUS RICAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER DATE SINGLE MOTHERS!
Are you nuts? Don't break this basic rule - EVER!
You got lucky, quit complaining.
2006-07-26 15:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your better off without her, cut your loses an get on with your life
2006-07-26 15:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by TJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋