ever since this morning,my son has been acting like a idiot! he been throwing tantrums,throwing things(he broke his gameboy) calling me names(like ugly and fat) then he yelled i hate you like 50 times! i just dont know what to do?!
2006-07-26 14:47:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
please help!! i know i have issues but i need answers to help me with my son! not critizing me
2006-07-26 15:01:58 · update #1
If this is a new thing then look at what has happened in the past few days. Everything from the people he has interacted with, to exposure to new foods, even his routine.
It could be anything from someone saying something negative to him, about him, about you, or about someone/something he loves dearly.
If there is exposure to new food, or excessive food with dyes, MSG, ect then he may not ever be able to tell you anything other then feeling totally out of control, not normal, weird, "out of sorts", ect. because its a chemical reaction to his body being sensitive to what he ate.
Even a simple routine change could set any child whose perviously had a very structured routine. Or could simply be a visit to the dentist, or the fear of something new happening in the near furture. (even 5yos have a hard time distinugishing from next week and next month)
He might never be able to explain why. Just try to keep your cool and sit him down when he gets wild to let him calm down again.
best wishes
2006-07-26 15:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by myshira 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a Five year old says he hates you, it means that he hates the situation at that moment.
Don't yell, don't answer. just let him work it out. Then, tell him ''I love you'' take him by the hand to the toy, have him pick it up, point out that he broke it. ASK; are you mad at the 'toy, game, person.' The child will answer Yes or No, then some will follow with an explanation. ( You may be surprised at the answer, could be he was not ready to stop playing to eat or go to the store. Maybe his friend got a higher score than he... maybe he knew that someone was coming over that would take your attention from him.)
If not, just tell him this behavior is not allowed.
A five year old can not accurately explain the problem.. If he is just throwing a tantrum - ignore him ... He will learn that he gets no attention from such behavior. If he Breaks a toy, hurts a person or animal... then you intervene, point out the wrong behavior, give a time out( 1 minute for every year of age. ) then when that time out is over say know more about the previous behavior.
2006-07-26 16:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more than disturbing that you are posting a child care issue under the name "sex kitten." Perhaps family therapy is in order. Any reasonable adult is perfectly aware that a 5 year old is not capable of expressing an 'explanation' of 'what's wrong with him." If you are overwhelmed, try some positive reinforcement or contact a more experienced parent in your area to give you a hand.
2006-07-26 14:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by alracaratq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine your concept of taking him out and homeschooling for somewhat is a sturdy concept. i imagine you choose time to artwork such as his thoughts in the present day and the college surroundings isn't the appropriate position for that. i imagine in some unspecified time sooner or later you've gotten to be prepared for questions which could in the different case be insulting, yet he's making an attempt to appreciate. pressure to him that the biggest reason it develop into incorrect is the actual incontrovertible reality that he's so youthful and the cousin must have conventional better then to damage a baby.
2016-11-26 01:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing your kid needs is a time out sitting all alone in a chair and being told he will be there until he calms down.
After he finally figures out he has to settle down to get out of the chair he will be fine to talk to and probably make sense.
If that does not work, get him to a doctor.
2006-07-26 15:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by MrPurrfect 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering his mother is someone named Sex Kitten, I cant say as if I blame him.
More to the point though, five year olds act out. They learn what's the most hurtful based on what they HEAR from YOU, and use it. Perhaps you should consider how your child sees you.
2006-07-26 14:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mom take a time out. Give him a time out. Look at the situation with clear eyes tomorrow, it just might be a bad day. Good luck.
2006-07-26 15:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It bothers me that the other day you were asking how to get boys to think of you as pretty and now you have a 5 year old?
You must have convinced someone that you were.
2006-07-26 15:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how 5y old are. You as a parent should punish him like no tv for a week or no desert.
2006-07-26 14:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by ******* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he might just be angry because you are pretty rough on the eyes.....
2006-07-26 17:36:27 · answer #10 · answered by megan l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋