I met a guy at a club, we hit it off pretty fast. He was really cute and I was defenetly attracted, but when he asked me to back to his place i didn't know what to say!
2006-07-26 14:33:37 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no they are not considered easy well not to me there not
2006-07-26 14:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by rick l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lord girl, yes the majority of men...and women would consider that behavior EASY. If you don't force a man to get to know you as a person, he won't bother to think of you as anything but a quick piece. For them it's another form of fishing...How many stories do you hear about a man with a net and the big one he scooped out of the tank...it's the one that got off their hook that they go back for the next day. It's all about the challenge. Furthermore How much do you know about him so quickly...He could be married, a loser, a drunk...If you wait at at least two weeks before you sleep with someone you'll weed out the nasty ones with obvious flaws. If you need excuse for not going to his place, just a simple "I'd love to, but I really have to get up early in the morning," or I have even said "I'm sorry I don't know you well enough."
2006-07-26 14:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to respect yourself. If you don't who will.
Second of all, if you are into living a healthy life why would you put yourself at risk for STDs?
And third... I have never met a man that respected a female after being 'easy'. He is not into the relationship.
When you give of yourself you should be in love and preferably married. You are unique and very special, save yourself for the special person you will be with forever.
If the guy was not into you, better find out now. If he is like this to you with out knowing you, could you ever trust him in a relationship?!
2006-07-26 14:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by ChristianGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually if a girl sleeps with a boy on the first night it's considered that she's easy and if a guy you back to his place you can just say for what to watch a movie that's all we going to do or you can say no i'm not up for it unless you easy
2006-07-26 14:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by nitabooj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a different opinion as I see here. Some people actually get married after doing it and others lose interest. So I say just do what comes natural to you, but it could backfire on you if you sleep around too much.
2006-07-26 14:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with a man on the first date, he won't have any respect for you. Any decent guy looking for a long term relationship wouldn't even think to ask a girl for sex on the first night.
2006-07-26 14:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-26 14:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oftentimes a guy will lose interest if the girl goes home with him on the first night. Mission accomplished, if you will.
A girl is considered easy, or desperate, if they give in on the first night. I mean, barely knowing the guy? What's in it for you?
2006-07-26 14:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell you what lots of men have told me and that is that if a woman sleeps with a guy on the first date, she's basically considered a floozy.
2006-07-26 14:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you would go back to his place doesn't mean you have to give it up. If you did, then, yeah, most people would think you're easy. If you actually like this person, then get to know him more before getting physical.
2006-07-26 14:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I slept with each other the first night. Next morning we were making plans for how to spoend the rest of our life together. Sometimes it just happens that way.
2006-07-26 15:26:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋