today she wouldnt stop until my arm was numb she wants me to do something that i promise i would do but she hits me and says if i dont do it she'll hit me even more while she is doing this she is smiling and laughing
2006-07-26 14:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by goliathrox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would restrain her next time as ask to please stop. If she doesn't tell her either it's over or she stops and start respecting you. That isnt right that she keeps hitting you. I hope this helps.
2006-07-26 14:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from her, forget her, and move on with your life. If she's abusive now when you are only dating, she will never stop this type of behavior. I don't know if you're thinking about a future with this girl or not, but if you are FORGET IT!!
People who are abusive remain abusive unless they get some serious help, and it seems that she thinks this is all a "big Joke" Don't be a part of it.
If you do care for her suggest she get help, take her to get help, but leave the romance behind for the time being.
2006-07-26 21:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by DragonLoverTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya she could be laughing. Still i don't think that anyone should hit anyone. I think u should leave her. Then maybe u will find a person who won't hit u.
She doesn't deserve a guy like u then.
2006-07-26 21:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Katharyn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its supposed to be a playful hit? I know one that is like that, and may hit alittle too hard though its not intended to be that way. Now if she has fire in her eyes when she hits you- yeah do something about it.
2006-07-26 21:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by tatsumaru12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her and run away! If you have told her not to do that, that you don't like it and she continues, she is an abusive person. Do you really want to run the risk of marrying this person, having a kid, and having her do this to the kid?
2006-07-26 21:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by PuttPutt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she does it again, you are serious and you will leave. Obviously she doesnot think it is an issue and doesn't care about your feelings.(and pain).
This is not the type of person who will be there for you when you really need it.
Trust me. you need to go once an for all.
2006-07-26 21:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by chris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has a control issue going on.Do you like being a punching bag?Maybe you should find someone who will not hit you.
2006-07-26 22:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what tha f**** are u still doing here go dump her and tell her ahe needs to be nicer to here next bf cause the same things going to happen
2006-07-26 21:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by lil_babygirl_210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Ya both might try learning how to communicate.
Buy a book on communicating. Geesh.
...oh, and read it.
2006-07-26 21:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gonzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop hitting you and if she doesn't stop, hit her back and hard.
2006-07-26 21:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by grrandram 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋